Where are the good single men? (dates, girl, call, responsible)

[the minx]

Originally Posted by ohio_peasant

The good single men are searching for the good single women. Ships passing in the night, within hailing distance but unable to behold each other, for lack of vision.

But what is "good"?

Does "good" mean having the foresight and responsibility to become materially established, and the discipline to actually get there? Perhaps. But such a good man might be focused on his career and his investments.

Does "good" mean father-material?

Does "good" mean having a fine liberal education, eloquence and familiarity with literature and the arts?

Does "good" mean "hot"?

I personally am single, but perhaps I am not good.

I was going to ask what "good" is but you beat me to it.

This is more a question of finding a compatible guy, not a good guy.

[Raena77]

In the van down by the river.

[Mr. Opinionated]

Originally Posted by mdiada

A good single man, with a job, who is genuine and loyal. Where is he?? Ugh, maybe i shpuld become a nun.

I am here, being "good" [unless you define it differently], not dating employed single women who do not prioritize that, as if this were 1955 and I'd be supporting them as a housewife. Now a more pertinent question posted somewhere on here might be 'where are the good single women?'

[hawaiiancoconut]

Originally Posted by mdiada

A good single man, with a job, who is genuine and loyal. Where is he??

Right here, sweetness! Im 5' 2" 255lbs, single, genuine, loyal.....and employed. wazzzzup?

[Emre27]

Because you girls are strange.All the great guys i know are single.I have many friends who has a great job,who is very royal when he's in a relationship,who is so honest and romantic but most of them are single.But you silly girls fall for men like me, who treat you horrible, who doesn't give a damn about you ,who tells you millions of lies...etc

[Iced Coffee]

You don't notice them because they aren't attractive.

[flathead4]

Literally everywhere. The parts store, the hardware store, the mall, the bank, the bookstore. I could go on. You know what the difference is between the women and the men out there (in everyday places) is though? The men you see everywhere don't have a shield up and get pissy if you approach them. Chances are they'll be pretty receptive to you.

[the minx]

Originally Posted by Iced Coffee

You don't notice them because they aren't attractive.

Good and single = unattractive?

[Prince_Frog]

I know tons of guys who are single and are looking for someone they can find a connection with, emotionally and/or physically.

But a lot of women are married here, so it pretty much sucks.

[ChessieMom]

Originally Posted by 10th Man Down

I qualify. I'm usually in the subway - when I have to go to work - with a book under my nose. I'm not interested in being approached. Do approach if you are interested in some sexy time without any expectations of a follow-up

I think that right there completely disqualifies you.