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I would talk to him about it, maybe even give him some sort of tip or advice. I remember when i first started having sex, my bf at the time told me to make sure my hands were always busy. It actually helped us a lot.
Good advice!
I think what puzzles me is, if both people are not actively engaged, it's not sex. I'm not sure what it is, but it's not real sex.
And I realise some people have never had real sex, and that's sad. But, for others... I am really confused!
In the animal kingdom, the female orgasm (or even any pleasure for that matter) is not necessary in order to conceive. On the other hand, the male must ejaculate, and will do so at any cost. This is solely biological imperative.
In the animal kingdom, the female orgasm (or even any pleasure for that matter) is not necessary in order to conceive. On the other hand, the male must ejaculate, and will do so at any cost. This is solely biological imperative.
I watched a documentary that talked about the female orgasm "grabbing" the semen.... it's a long story (that's what she said) but basically how the female orgasm adds to the conceiving process.... too involved to get into here.... just thought I'd mention it..
I'm a cold fish sometimes I'll just lay there and let her get on top to do whatever she likes. Sometimes I fall asleep. If she does ask me what is wrong than I will speak up.
I watched a documentary that talked about the female orgasm "grabbing" the semen.... it's a long story (that's what she said) but basically how the female orgasm adds to the conceiving process.... too involved to get into here.... just thought I'd mention it..
I think most guys have a bedroom policy that Everyone gets an orgasm.
I think most guys have a bedroom policy that Everyone gets an orgasm.
LOL... really... have you not been reading here?? Many females posters here complain about men and how they don't give two shyts and f....... about their orgasms.........
If a grown-ass adult has a problem, they need to speak up. It is unfair for to say nothing is wrong, then hold it against your partner for not intuiting otherwise. That's just a silly, manipulative mind game.
Exactly and although the OP was careful not to pin blame on a certain gender, I think it's safe to assume not to many men are likely to quit mid-act and assume the role of "victim". Any responsible, loving , caring woman without a man-hating agenda should be smart and reasonable enough to not engage in acts that put them self in a position to have sex they don't really want.
I think what puzzles me is, if both people are not actively engaged, it's not sex. I'm not sure what it is, but it's not real sex.
There are definitely women out there who seem to think sex is something they don't participate in so much as have done to them, which is sad. I've even had a couple of women who thought something was wrong with me because I wasn't aroused enough to "perform" by the mere sight of them lying there naked, with no touching or talking or anything. Such a turn-off. Fortunately they have been the exception in my experience, but they are out there.
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