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So I have been thinking about losing my virginity to my boyfriend. He was my best friend for more than 5 years before we started dating and we have been dating a year now. We are both 20 years old. I am not sure yet about 100% if and when I want to have sex and if I am fully ready but I want to just let my boyfriend know that I hope he is the one I lose my virginity too.
Does that sound weird? Can I just tell him that? I am not sure how this all works at all. If it is normal to say it, how do I tell him that?
If you are serious with this guy why not wait till you guys are married.
Don't say anything to him about it until you are ready to do it. It's one of those topics that once mentioned, can never be unmentioned, and it will put pressures on both of you that you probably don't want.
nothing the poster said indicated that the guy is willing to accept the offer.
edit: Now some clown will probably respond saying 'the guy is always willing, it is the women who is the gatekeeper.' That is NOT true and you canNOT assume that is true.
Last edited by austin2359; 11-29-2013 at 11:15 PM..
So I have been thinking about losing my virginity to my boyfriend. He was my best friend for more than 5 years before we started dating and we have been dating a year now. We are both 20 years old. I am not sure yet about 100% if and when I want to have sex and if I am fully ready but I want to just let my boyfriend know that I hope he is the one I lose my virginity too.
Does that sound weird? Can I just tell him that? I am not sure how this all works at all. If it is normal to say it, how do I tell him that?
get naked in front of him.....he'll figure it out.....
If you really have to ask this question, you are not ready (or mature enough) to be having sex.
How true.
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