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Hey, thanks for your answers !
A guy I fancied a bit just asked me to be his sex partner, I said no and felt very very bad and reduced since I've already been trapped in this for my first time and took a year to recover. I'm abroad, just had a bulimia crisis and can't study for my tomorrow's exam... I need help
Trapped in what for a year? Is there a counseling/mental health center at the university where you are? If so, drop in and ask for help.
Don't let people pressure you into anything you don't want to do, and don't let those demands affect your self-esteem. There are good guys out there, be patient. Try joining some groups at your university, or getting involved in a club outside the university, in the community. And if you have girlfriends at the uni, use them as a support system.
Hey, thanks for your answers !
A guy I fancied a bit just asked me to be his sex partner, I said no and felt very very bad and reduced since I've already been trapped in this for my first time and took a year to recover. I'm abroad, just had a bulimia crisis and can't study for my tomorrow's exam... I need help
See a therapist for the bulimia
Call a classmate you can study with
And tell the guy looking to hook up that you need a friend, not a sex partner
It sounds like you're under stress. Try to do something to de-stress, and to manage stress on a routine basis. Like: take a hot bath and relax, get a massage, surround yourself with friends. Is there a student clinic you can go to?
Hello, thank you for answering.
I was saying that it took me a year to let go of a guy that I stopped seeing because I felt he was using me. This one is at least honest not to play and tell me what he wants but it's just killing me that I only meet men like these.
It's 7pm and I've got an exam tomorrow, I can't go out and I can't call my parents because my mum is going to cry if she knows I had a crisis.
Take a bath or shower, listen to some music and have some tea, then turn your attention to your studies.
Don't worry about guys for now. At this point, trying for a relationship is more trouble and stress than it's worth. You need to work on your therapy, first, and your studies. Be good to yourself.
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