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Are there men who really desire to be with just one woman? Not many. Most all men crave sexual variety.
Are there men who are capable of being with just one woman? Of course! Such men definitely exist!
Look, don't be naive. Monogamy is a social construct, not a biological truth. All men would like to have sex with a variety of women if they could. But the mark of a man's devotion in monogamous relationship is that he doesn't sleep with other women, not that he doesn't want to. Isn't that enough?
I disagree. I believe we're biologically wired to be with one partner. If it weren't the case, then dating and sleeping around wouldn't come with so much baggage and dangers (STDs, unwanted stepchildren, emotional trauma, etc.).
There is no baggage with one life-time partner (besides the desire to stray, which is just trivial and can be overcome with self control and reasoning skills). There are benefits to life-time partners. Less chance of STDs, emotional stability, life-time friend and playmate, extended blood family and relations to depend on financially and emotionally, a network of love and connectedness with in-laws, grandkids, grandparents.
To the OP, find a man of faith or a church goer. You don't have to be one yourself, but those types of men will give you what you're looking for (faith-full).
Are there men who really desire to be with just one woman? Not many. Most all men crave sexual variety.
Are there men who are capable of being with just one woman? Of course! Such men definitely exist!
Look, don't be naive. Monogamy is a social construct, not a biological truth. All men would like to have sex with a variety of women if they could. But the mark of a man's devotion in monogamous relationship is that he doesn't sleep with other women, not that he doesn't want to. Isn't that enough?
I actually agree with you.
And the biological truth of women is that they desire the best, fittest, strongest men with the highest status. Which everybody probably knows how I feel about the extent of truth that statement carries.
But to me, relationships are based on friendship, not attraction, sex, and emotion.
So, instead of the dog running around looking to screw every female dog in sight, it's more like the dog who remains faithful to the boy/buddy he grew up with.
Yeah, a little ride before I see diced onions and spices floating into the frog stock.
Nah....some sugar.
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