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All of life a gamble...My advice get dept free and stay out out dept ....
Debt?
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If one worried about there future never get in Debt, been out Debt for 16 years..That was my advice for JJS99, since he worried about future ... You have a lot more freedom, plus a lot less no worries if you or partner lose a job.
If one worried about there future never get in Debt, been out Debt for 16 years..That was my advice for JJS99 , since he worried about future ... You have a lot more freedom, plus a lot less no worries if you or partner lose a job.
You wrote dept, twice. I was confirming you meant debt. It confused me the first few times I read your post.
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Actually, you only date men who shell out money on dates, so... You may not be up for auction but you're essentially for sale since men have to pay for you.
As someone who lives in her area, not interested in buying. Far too many women here who are willing to agree to treat me once in awhile to put up with her nonsense.
Thank you Mrskay...You get it! I don't feel any leaser of a woman letting my man do what he loves to do, taking care of me and be a provider, he enjoys and takes great pleasure in seeing me happy and being able to make some money on the side with my talent I so love, likewise I take care of him, I take care of his needs and wants, make sure he doesn't go without...
If you don't feel comfortable being direct about what you'd like to see in terms of dating parity then I suggest you invite "miss hottie" on some inexpensive/free dates and see how she responds
like show up one day with an old movie from the library and microwave popcorn
invite her over for a game of backgammon or scrabble and wine or cocoa
go on a trail walk
volunteer to build a habit for humanity house together or some other charitable activity
these scenarios will allow you to enter into a courtship on different terms
it will also help you to gauge if she is truly interested in you or simply interested in what you can do for her
additionally I think folks often date without clear and congruent goals and objectives
like are you just trying to keep company with a hottie and have a friend with benefits or are you looking for a potential spouse/ life partner? Is she looking for a sponsor? A sponsor with benefits? Or a life partner?
If neither of you desire marriage then set ground rules for how your escorting/ courtship/ partnership/company keeping goes. SERIOUSLY!
Well, I'm jobless, single, and never been on a date but if I had a job and a girlfriend I'd want to pay for the dates we went on. If it was a woman I really liked, and felt I clicked with, why would I worry about some money? I guess it's because I don't really ever have much money around, that if I'm ever dating, it will be refreshing to me to actually have the money to spend.
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