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Old 01-12-2014, 10:37 PM
 
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Interesting article here:

I'm Fat, 40 and Single

Excerpt:

One of the first men I met after the separation was someone I initially assumed was completely out of my league. He is the absolute whole package -- smart, successful, a hell of a nice guy, not to mention extremely handsome with the gym-perfected body of a Greek god. The kind of guy who can pretty much have his pick of women. To my surprise, he was incredibly into me, and continues to be to this day.

go on, read it, then come back.

on the one hand, the media is constantly hammering into our heads the image of skinny white women as the perfect ideal of feminine beauty, but on the other even very plain looking women can get laid very easily with guys that are a good bit more attractive than themselves. i'm not basing this statement off of just the article linked to, but on something i (and countless others) have observed directly.

why, then, are so many women STILL so insecure about their bodies? the amount of validation you get from men on a daily basis is more than what most men can hope to enjoy in a year. what makes you so insecure?

 
Old 01-13-2014, 03:48 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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It's interesting and true and not my cup of tea.
 
Old 01-13-2014, 05:12 AM
 
Location: NY
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Entertaining. Not sure I am buying everything there that is being sold (for a variety of reasons)... but entertaining.
 
Old 01-13-2014, 05:16 AM
 
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What a fantastic article. It's so rare to find a woman who owns her rampant sexual appetite AND embraces her fatness. Very nicely written.
 
Old 01-13-2014, 05:22 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Ain't anything new; fat women getting laid
 
Old 01-13-2014, 05:30 AM
 
Location: Coastal Georgia
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Everyone looks good in the dark, but do they take you out in public?
 
Old 01-13-2014, 06:54 AM
 
Location: Center of the universe
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Originally Posted by Djuna View Post
What a fantastic article. It's so rare to find a woman who owns her rampant sexual appetite AND embraces her fatness. Very nicely written.
I, for one, quite admire that type of woman.
 
Old 01-13-2014, 07:50 AM
 
Location: not where you are
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Originally Posted by gentlearts View Post
Everyone looks good in the dark, but do they take you out in public?
Yes, indeed they do.
 
Old 01-13-2014, 07:54 AM
 
Location: Up in the air
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My now ex boyfriend broke up with me over the weekend because he just didn't find me 'physically attractive'. He said he tried (for the past 8 months apparently) to make himself attracted to me because we got along so well, but couldn't lie to me anymore.

So yeah, plenty of men only judge on a woman's physical appearance and that will never change. Lucky for that woman that she's getting laid while she's fat and 40....good for her.
 
Old 01-13-2014, 07:59 AM
 
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Originally Posted by JetJockey View Post
My now ex boyfriend broke up with me over the weekend because he just didn't find me 'physically attractive'. He said he tried (for the past 8 months apparently) to make himself attracted to me because we got along so well, but couldn't lie to me anymore.

Oh no, sorry. That sounded like it was going so well.
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