I have zero experience in dating(I have never dated till now) but I think I can understand what you've written.I would say
yes the first impression that you give is certainly important as it helps the other understand what kind of a person you are.It gives an overall perspective, an image of what that person is.
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Let's say you are the type of person who is dirty, poor, negative outlook, etc but on the first date, you rent a nice car, shave/shower and dress sharp, have a little drink so you loosen up and by the end of the date, you might have convinced the girl to even sleep with you......
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Yes but its also true that some people misuse this first impression and show off their best,even if they are nowhere close to it.They give off
false positive impression.They do so because they actually want to put a good image in your mind, which is a lie because they are not being themselves,at that moment they are trying to be someone else or showing off as someone they are not.In my view it is totally wrong and at all costs should not be done.
Truth will eventually come one day or another.
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Isn't that a terrible process? On my first date, I'd rather the girl not wear any makeup and show me her worst so I know exactly what I am getting at. (well not her worst, but her regular everyday attitude) ......
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Yes well said .You should always show your true self no matter what the situation might be and then leave the decsion to others whether they want to accept you or not.In my view "
You should never try to impress someone,let others get impressed by the fact that you are who you are and don't try to impress others".The right person will like you for who you are.
Even in general terms not talking about dating and relationships as such but in any situation you should always be true to yourself and to others
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