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I have almost completely lost my sex drive. Not sure why. If I had to guess, I would say it's a psychological reaction to being betrayed so badly and simultaneously a defense mechanism against opening myself up to any woman and risk that kind of devastation again.
Either way, it's honestly the best thing that's happened to me in a long time.
Did someone say that, or are you confusing "needs to have" with "prefers to have" or possibly "wishes to have"? Because that's a pretty silly thing to say.
Did someone say that, or are you confusing "needs to have" with "prefers to have" or possibly "wishes to have"? Because that's a pretty silly thing to say.
I thought someone said that earlier today, in the context that some women were saying as much here on C-D..oh wait, that thread was moved to Psychology:
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Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth
OnihC, you've been away for awhile. You missed the threads where C-D guys insisted that 3-4 times/week was plenty of sex for them, and actually got angry at the suggestion that daily sex was normal for guys in their 20's. You missed the thread were a number of C-D women said they need it every day. We've had women here who posted that they had to break up with their guy, because his drive just wasn't enough for them. So clearly, there are women who get turned down regularly in a relationship. And this is not to mention the women who get stuck with guys who have let themselves go and lose interest in sex sometime in midlife. I think "what we often hear", at least on the part of some guys, is very selective.
Make no mistake: women LOVE sex! And denying it for manipulative reasons is immature and manipulative. I don't believe there are very many women who do that. Most people aren't manipulative. Manipulative types should get weeded out in the dating process.
Am I missing something....is this a trick question?
Not a trick question, and your "snappy answer to" my "stupid question" is obvious, trite and unhelpful. What would women think or suggest if they (or their friends) were in the same boat?
What does a women who needs it regularly have to do with a man who never get's it ?
Sounds like the guy who doesn't get sex needs to meet the lady who wants sex.
Not a trick question, and your "snappy answer to" my "stupid question" is obvious, trite and unhelpful. What would women think or suggest if they (or their friends) were in the same boat?
No, that was my suggestion. It's what I do. I'm the freakin' captain of that ship lately.
I dunno...what other options are there other than hiring an escort? Masturbation is quick, easy and free.
What does a women who needs it regularly have to do with a man who never get's it ?
Sounds like the guy who doesn't get sex needs to meet the lady who wants sex.
Is there a reason you never get laid ?
Sigh. What I'm getting at is, what would women who claim they need sex every day think do or suggest if THEY were in a position of never or rarely having sex. I am not currently in that boat but I was for almost 12 years.
How would THEY feel? (to be on their own, with no direction home, a complete unknown, like a rolling stone)
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