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Old 02-13-2014, 10:40 PM
 
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I’m American mixed with Indian in me and 27 years old and still a virgin. Having this virginity is making me frustrated that is beginning to affect my daily life because I feel that I will never experience sex especially that I’m going to be 28 years old and still la virgin. I can see at this rate I will be 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, and so and still be a be a virgin. In the past I tried to meet some girls they were Chinese and a Mexican. I would study with them and help them, so I figure since I’m nice something would materialize. I once back in 2011 told a Chinese girl I was interested in her and she wanted was to be friends. So just by all of this I can officially say no woman wants me out there even I’m nice helpful person. I been told I’m smart. I just don’t get it. I just don’t get how people and friends I know and bam just get into a relationship when I cannot even have one. I cannot even get a date. Now in my last year of college I just told myself hell with women and I’m just going to meet guys and that is what I done so far. The only place I can meet girls is at school I’m not a bar or club person. People get shot in clubs over stupid things.



So I recently signed up for sfredbook which is an escort website and they have a review for each escort I’m seriously thinking of using one maybe have an incall service. I’m done with dating and maybe it’s because I’m mixed with Indian and very ugly to women eyes. I have read online most women say Indian men are super ugly, so they are probably the answer. As for relationships and dating, I’m done looking, if I cannot get a date by age of 27 years old then I say **** it, I’m done. Maybe if I was giving a least a one date chance then I would have more hope but I cannot even get that. So I’m heading to the escorts to get a date and get laid for my first time.


I just need some tips how do I explain to the escort it will be my first time having sex? Do I tell her I’m a virgin or not? Do you think a escort for $ 200.00 to $ 300.00 is good for a okay quality escort? I’m not looking for Megan Fox. Just the average escort.
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Old 02-13-2014, 11:20 PM
 
Location: If I tell you, will you visit?
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Are you being rash because it is Valentines Eve, or day, depending on where you are?

I hear that you feel like crap at the moment, but you are still young. Take it as a blessing that you get to work on you right now. Relax and give your decision one week. If it still seems like a good idea then, go for it!

In the meantime, write down 15 things that you have to offer a woman. Be creative, they go for all sorts of nutty things.
Once you have your list, go out and ask out 3 women this week. What to you have to loose?
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Old 02-14-2014, 12:08 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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I’m American mixed with Indian in me and 27 years old and still a virgin. Having this virginity is making me frustrated that is beginning to affect my daily life because I feel that I will never experience sex especially that I’m going to be 28 years old and still la virgin. I can see at this rate I will be 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, and so and still be a be a virgin. In the past I tried to meet some girls they were Chinese and a Mexican. I would study with them and help them, so I figure since I’m nice something would materialize. I once back in 2011 told a Chinese girl I was interested in her and she wanted was to be friends. So just by all of this I can officially say no woman wants me out there even I’m nice helpful person. I been told I’m smart. I just don’t get it. I just don’t get how people and friends I know and bam just get into a relationship when I cannot even have one. I cannot even get a date. Now in my last year of college I just told myself hell with women and I’m just going to meet guys and that is what I done so far. The only place I can meet girls is at school I’m not a bar or club person. People get shot in clubs over stupid things.



So I recently signed up for sfredbook which is an escort website and they have a review for each escort I’m seriously thinking of using one maybe have an incall service. I’m done with dating and maybe it’s because I’m mixed with Indian and very ugly to women eyes. I have read online most women say Indian men are super ugly, so they are probably the answer. As for relationships and dating, I’m done looking, if I cannot get a date by age of 27 years old then I say **** it, I’m done. Maybe if I was giving a least a one date chance then I would have more hope but I cannot even get that. So I’m heading to the escorts to get a date and get laid for my first time.


I just need some tips how do I explain to the escort it will be my first time having sex? Do I tell her I’m a virgin or not? Do you think a escort for $ 200.00 to $ 300.00 is good for a okay quality escort? I’m not looking for Megan Fox. Just the average escort.
I gave up on dating years ago. I just worry about myself.
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Old 02-14-2014, 12:45 AM
 
Location: Armsanta Sorad
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More power to you. I gave up the dating scene after my relationship went sour. Less hassle and responsibilities. I was kinda looking for a reason to end my relationship so I could live a ghostly stress-fee lifestyle.
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Old 02-14-2014, 07:04 AM
 
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Women don't think Indian men are ugly. That's just you feeling sorry for yourself.
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Old 02-14-2014, 09:01 AM
 
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Women don't think Indian men are ugly. That's just you feeling sorry for yourself.
I totally agree. I have known several women who are attracted to Indian men. However, I must strongly advise you against calling an escort agency.

I had a friend a few years ago who was manically depressed. He had a lot going for him, he was very personable and successful, but his self image was just horrible. He ended up hiring an escort on three separate occasions and he confessed to me how big of a mistake it ended up being.

Sex is special, and the first time even more so. Don't throw it away on an escort. This is not even counting the possible legal implications if you were caught in some type of sting operation .
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Old 02-14-2014, 09:28 AM
 
Location: Banana Republic, LA
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You need to drop the escort idea and work on your self esteem. A therapist would be an excellent idea. BTW my lovely BF is Indian and I think he is the most sexy man I have ever met... the problem is, so does he! He has an ego the size of Texas
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Old 02-14-2014, 09:30 AM
 
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Old 02-14-2014, 11:19 PM
 
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How come hiring a escort is bad? If you want to get to experience sex right away is easiest and quickest way of doing so. Any woman I see I just think what is like to do it. It's just on my mind too much to even focus on a possible dating and relationships. I would think going to a escort would help relieve this sexual tension that is building up like steam under lid of boiling water. I feel that once I do it then curious mind of sexual thoughts would go away and I can focus on dating more.
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Old 02-14-2014, 11:37 PM
 
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I’m American mixed with Indian in me and 27 years old and still a virgin. Having this virginity is making me frustrated that is beginning to affect my daily life because I feel that I will never experience sex especially that I’m going to be 28 years old and still la virgin. I can see at this rate I will be 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, and so and still be a be a virgin.
It's possible yea.

Just keep trying and try and be happy.

I actually have known a number of guys in their 30s who are good guys and have had almost zero success with women. It happens. Just enjoy the parts of life that make you happy.
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