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I've been spending time with my ex quite a bit lately. Everything has been amazing. He told me that we are so good together and for each other, but he won't actually get back together with me yet. He Said it might take a couple months to see that things are still good. He's not seeing Anyone else, we spend most of our time together or talking....
Not sure what to think!
He even tells me he loves me still, kisses me, etc.
Wow!! My ex lives 20 minutes down the road and other than a "hi" and "drive safe", when we swap kids, are the only words spoken between us. I am grateful for that clean of a separation. I don't see us ever being able to communicate about the issues that drove us apart and I'm not going to invest the time now.
I do wish you the best, but hope you two can communicate what caused you to separate to begin with before you invest in him again.
I've been spending time with my ex quite a bit lately. Everything has been amazing. He told me that we are so good together and for each other, but he won't actually get back together with me yet. He Said it might take a couple months to see that things are still good. He's not seeing Anyone else, we spend most of our time together or talking....
Not sure what to think!
He even tells me he loves me still, kisses me, etc.
Were you married? Just BF and GF? How long were you together?
Sounds like it is all good . . .until it gets bad again.
If you have problems with such things as unwarranted jealousy, I would suspect that hasn't disappeared by taking some meds. Unless you are in counseling to get to the root of your insecurity issues, you haven't overcome them and will most likely fall back on the same coping mechanisms.
You can't expect to have a longterm relationship with someone til you have actually worked through the issues that caused the relationship problems.
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