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Old 02-17-2014, 09:49 AM
 
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I've been spending time with my ex quite a bit lately. Everything has been amazing. He told me that we are so good together and for each other, but he won't actually get back together with me yet. He Said it might take a couple months to see that things are still good. He's not seeing Anyone else, we spend most of our time together or talking....
Not sure what to think!

He even tells me he loves me still, kisses me, etc.
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Old 02-17-2014, 09:52 AM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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Why is he your ex?
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Old 02-17-2014, 09:58 AM
 
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Because we had some issues with me being jealous, things have changes though.... I'm on medication to help my anxiety
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Old 02-17-2014, 09:59 AM
 
Location: If I tell you, will you visit?
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Wow!! My ex lives 20 minutes down the road and other than a "hi" and "drive safe", when we swap kids, are the only words spoken between us. I am grateful for that clean of a separation. I don't see us ever being able to communicate about the issues that drove us apart and I'm not going to invest the time now.

I do wish you the best, but hope you two can communicate what caused you to separate to begin with before you invest in him again.
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Old 02-17-2014, 10:38 AM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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Focus more on yourself and less on him.
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Old 02-17-2014, 10:47 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Because we had some issues with me being jealous, things have changes though.... I'm on medication to help my anxiety
Sounds like he's willing to give things a second chance now that you are taking medication for your anxiety and behaving more appropriately.

Go slow, things may yet work out.
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Old 02-17-2014, 10:49 AM
 
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I've been spending time with my ex quite a bit lately. Everything has been amazing. He told me that we are so good together and for each other, but he won't actually get back together with me yet. He Said it might take a couple months to see that things are still good. He's not seeing Anyone else, we spend most of our time together or talking....
Not sure what to think!

He even tells me he loves me still, kisses me, etc.
Were you married? Just BF and GF? How long were you together?
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Old 02-17-2014, 10:55 AM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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Were you married? Just BF and GF? How long were you together?
I linked her original thread. Looks like they've been together for 8 months as boyfriend/girlfriend.

get ex boyfriend back
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Old 02-17-2014, 11:05 AM
 
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So most of what I said in the other thread applies.
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Old 02-17-2014, 11:08 AM
 
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Sounds like it is all good . . .until it gets bad again.

If you have problems with such things as unwarranted jealousy, I would suspect that hasn't disappeared by taking some meds. Unless you are in counseling to get to the root of your insecurity issues, you haven't overcome them and will most likely fall back on the same coping mechanisms.

You can't expect to have a longterm relationship with someone til you have actually worked through the issues that caused the relationship problems.
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