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Old 03-12-2014, 11:18 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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That much confusion and drama just makes another excellent reason to delete fakebook entirely.
For Christ sakes, OP, this overthinking about Fakebook drives me insane.

I wish I could snip my fingers and that stupid thing goes away.
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Old 03-12-2014, 11:19 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Alright, the point of my thread is not about "How to use FB" ... I would like to know why he would send me such an invite?
No, the REAL question is how can YOU stop something that is distressing to you?

We can speculate all day about why a guy no one here except you knows is doing something.

If you don't like it, stop it from happening. Who cares why??
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Old 03-12-2014, 11:22 AM
 
Location: Empire State of Philly
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No I was just wondering if it's common or not.
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Old 03-12-2014, 11:23 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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It's kinda weird, and I would not say it's common.
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Old 03-12-2014, 11:23 AM
 
Location: NoVa
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Did YOU add him? That is the question. You can ignore requests.
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Old 03-12-2014, 11:25 AM
 
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Does not sound like the "engaged" one is very dedicated to the one they are about to marry...FB friends especially former lovers should be the last thing to focus on..
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Old 03-12-2014, 11:28 AM
 
Location: Empire State of Philly
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Did YOU add him? That is the question. You can ignore requests.
If he were single, I'd probably think he wants to rekindle. However, he's engaged, and that's what has me thinking about his intentions.

No, I haven't added him yet. I'm not sure if I should. I don't have any feelings for him at all, I'm still very much trying to get over someone else. I broke up with him for a reason, he wasn't a fit and I frankly told him such thing.

Hence, I'm confused. Especially as he sent me the request a few hours after I unblocked him. Considering the fact he was blocked for 2 years, it's pretty strange. He must have been looking for me.

Now, I'm not sure if it's a common occurrence, apparently not. It's slightly weird. I'm weighing the pros and the cons of adding him. After all, I know nothing is going to happen since I have no feelings left and he's engaged.
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Old 03-12-2014, 11:31 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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He is your EX for a reason.

I would not add.
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Old 03-12-2014, 11:31 AM
 
Location: Hampton Roads
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I don't know exactly how this work, but he might have sent the request during the time he was blocked and it was hidden from your view due to the block.

Either way, adding someone as a "friend" on facebook is meaningless.
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Old 03-12-2014, 11:33 AM
 
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OP, who knows, really? None of us is your ex and none of us are mind-readers.

If you don't like that he's added you, then block him. If you're ok with contact, then don't.

You can continue to ask a forum filled with strangers, but if it's complete closure/solace you're looking for, I promise you won't find it here.
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