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Does not sound like the "engaged" one is very dedicated to the one they are about to marry...FB friends especially former lovers should be the last thing to focus on..
Did YOU add him? That is the question. You can ignore requests.
If he were single, I'd probably think he wants to rekindle. However, he's engaged, and that's what has me thinking about his intentions.
No, I haven't added him yet. I'm not sure if I should. I don't have any feelings for him at all, I'm still very much trying to get over someone else. I broke up with him for a reason, he wasn't a fit and I frankly told him such thing.
Hence, I'm confused. Especially as he sent me the request a few hours after I unblocked him. Considering the fact he was blocked for 2 years, it's pretty strange. He must have been looking for me.
Now, I'm not sure if it's a common occurrence, apparently not. It's slightly weird. I'm weighing the pros and the cons of adding him. After all, I know nothing is going to happen since I have no feelings left and he's engaged.
I don't know exactly how this work, but he might have sent the request during the time he was blocked and it was hidden from your view due to the block.
Either way, adding someone as a "friend" on facebook is meaningless.
OP, who knows, really? None of us is your ex and none of us are mind-readers.
If you don't like that he's added you, then block him. If you're ok with contact, then don't.
You can continue to ask a forum filled with strangers, but if it's complete closure/solace you're looking for, I promise you won't find it here.
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