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Originally Posted by rego00123
Because you are.
This doesn't imply you are doing it for the wrong reasons or have something devious under toe.
It literally means you are keeping things from others....which yes, yes you are when you choose what is and isn't private material.
I view either end of the spectrum as the same kind of fanatical behavior.
I've been with the same person almost 12 years. We know each other, we know our behaviors and personalities. We both feel comfortable going in to one another's Emails or texts IF THERE IS REASON.
Nobody was forcefully handing over passwords so we could check in on the other. It was a trust that developed over time through example and understanding and is used when there is a NEED for it. That also doesn't mean common courtesy is suddenly trumped just because of "haha I have your passwords time to go to town!"
If there is a need for it, the other is informed of it BEFORE it happens and WHY it's happening.
Obviously most "new" relationships will not have the time or devotion involved to have passwords and private information flowing back and forth free form. It's completely illogical to share everything in this situation.
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