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Old 04-13-2014, 07:10 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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Inexperienced males will likely genuinely desire...any type of female contact, including friendship.
Hmm...Okay. I'm a very experienced male who cherishes my friendships with females. Where does that put me in your theory? I've had sex with plenty of women, but that doesn't mean I can't have perfectly good sexless friendships with other women.
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Old 04-13-2014, 08:59 PM
 
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Hate the fact that I wasn't raised right
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Old 04-25-2014, 05:14 PM
 
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It happens. You're gonna have to make a choice one day or life will choose for you. ... oh and if you're not with anyone, one day your mate might think of you as the "the best he/she could do..." You'd likely never know, tho...until possibly later on.

This is real life stuff man.
Your post is why I stay single life has already shown me im not fist pick or anyone`s so im sure as hell an not going to be second or last.
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Old 04-25-2014, 05:33 PM
 
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Hmm...Okay. I'm a very experienced male who cherishes my friendships with females. Where does that put me in your theory? I've had sex with plenty of women, but that doesn't mean I can't have perfectly good sexless friendships with other women.
but if you struggled to have sex with other women it would make the friend ships that much more tense becuase now you would be desperate and seeking to make those friend ships sexual. Sure the player with 5 hot woman lined up has no problems being friends with teh other 5 lesser hot women who would probably drop their pants if said guy wanted them too.
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Old 04-25-2014, 05:46 PM
 
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I wouldn't want to be with someone who thought I was the best they could do and vice versa.
Then you are part of the ranks of people with options. When your someone who has a hard time dating and you find someone who will do things to you in bed that NO one else has been willingn to do or it was rare and they treat you nice why would you cut them loose. My gf had never had a guy willing to do what I do in bed and I treat her well. She was worried I was going to move on when something better came along but its been over a year and im not looking.

thats just the way it goes. When you have low dating market value and find someone who does not hold back even though they may have settled why would you cut them loose?
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Old 04-25-2014, 05:47 PM
 
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Your post is why I stay single life has already shown me im not fist pick or anyone`s so im sure as hell an not going to be second or last.
Have fun with your internet porn.
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Old 04-26-2014, 12:16 AM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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but if you struggled to have sex with other women it would make the friend ships that much more tense becuase now you would be desperate and seeking to make those friend ships sexual.
Maybe-- but I would consider the problem in that scenario to be the fact that I was desperate, not the fact that I had female friends.
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Old 04-26-2014, 04:49 AM
 
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Maybe-- but I would consider the problem in that scenario to be the fact that I was desperate, not the fact that I had female friends.
That is correct but it will end the friend ships none the less. That is like saying that if I stand in fire its my fault because my feet are not fire proof rather than just not standing in the fire.

If I am desperate and I know im desperate and the female friend cant hook me up with anyone then I wont put her through all my problems and will end the friend ship. Sometimes life just sucks but I have to be aware that my feet are not fire proof.
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Old 04-26-2014, 11:10 AM
 
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Then you are part of the ranks of people with options. When your someone who has a hard time dating and you find someone who will do things to you in bed that NO one else has been willingn to do or it was rare and they treat you nice why would you cut them loose. My gf had never had a guy willing to do what I do in bed and I treat her well. She was worried I was going to move on when something better came along but its been over a year and im not looking.

thats just the way it goes. When you have low dating market value and find someone who does not hold back even though they may have settled why would you cut them loose?
Because it's not real no women has asked me out or wanted to date me. In five years if a women asks me out it won't be my looks and it can't be my personality because I don't talk to women anymore and ignore them. The only reason they would won't to be with me is because they are running out of options and don't want to be alone and I don't need that.
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Old 04-26-2014, 11:29 AM
 
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Because it's not real no women has asked me out or wanted to date me. In five years if a women asks me out it won't be my looks and it can't be my personality because I don't talk to women anymore and ignore them. The only reason they would won't to be with me is because they are running out of options and don't want to be alone and I don't need that.
Who cares it could be good as long as they don't have baby or wedding fever.
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