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Old 04-05-2014, 10:51 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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She was 27. I tried the whole dating thing and it isn't for me. I will just stay single.
I don't think dating is for you either.
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Old 04-05-2014, 10:58 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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I don't think dating is for you either.
I agree with you. I have more success with cars then with women.
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Old 04-05-2014, 11:09 PM
 
Location: Queens, NY
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I don't understand why you're giving up on dating. It's not like you did anything wrong, you just don't want to date women that have kids from other relationships, which is a preference.
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Old 04-05-2014, 11:15 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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I don't understand why you're giving up on dating. It's not like you did anything wrong, you just don't want to date women that have kids from other relationships, which is a preference.
Did I imply that? Let me rephrase it. I am taking a break from dating to focus on college and to fix cars.
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Old 04-05-2014, 11:21 PM
 
Location: Queens, NY
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Did I imply that? Let me rephrase it. I am taking a break from dating to focus on college and to fix cars.
Oh, I got confused cause you replied to a post that said dating might not be for you, and you agreed.
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Old 04-05-2014, 11:22 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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We didn't even finish dinner. I paid for it and left.
That was really rude! I can't believe someone had the nerve to walk out in the middle of dinner, just because his date said she had a kid at home. How could you do that? You mean to tell us it would have killed you to finish dinner, and then tell her as you two were leaving that you wanted to skip the movie, because dating with her wouldn't work out? You couldn't at least finish dinner, if not finish the whole date, and say, "It's been a nice evening, but I'm looking for someone without kids." You couldn't do that?

I'm trying to get my mind around this. You're brutal!



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I paid for our meal and then I left. I don't know what she did after that.
um....she went home and cried, because a guy walked out on her right in the middle of dinner, just because she said she had a kid?
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Old 04-05-2014, 11:24 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Did I imply that? Let me rephrase it. I am taking a break from dating to focus on college and to fix cars.
How can you take a break if you've only dated twice (or more like: one-and-a-half times) in the last 2-3 months? What break? What dating?
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Old 04-05-2014, 11:32 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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That was really rude! I can't believe someone had the nerve to walk out in the middle of dinner, just because his date said she had a kid at home. How could you do that? You mean to tell us it would have killed you to finish dinner, and then tell her as you two were leaving that you wanted to skip the movie, because dating with her wouldn't work out? You couldn't at least finish dinner, if not finish the whole date, and say, "It's been a nice evening, but I'm looking for someone without kids." You couldn't do that?

I'm trying to get my mind around this. You're brutal!




um....she went home and cried, because a guy walked out on her right in the middle of dinner, just because she said she had a kid?
LMAO! And women aren't brutal? I didn't do anything wrong.
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Old 04-05-2014, 11:35 PM
 
Location: Queens, NY
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LMAO! And women aren't brutal? I didn't do anything wrong.
Yikes, I assumed you had actually finished dinner (or the whole date), and then respectfully told her that you prefer to date a woman without kids. That wasn't the case? I'm a male, but that's pretty awful if true.

You should have only up and left right away if she had done (or was constantly doing) something that was very inappropriate.
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Old 04-05-2014, 11:41 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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LMAO! And women aren't brutal? I didn't do anything wrong.
You walked out on a date without even finishing dinner, just because you found out she has a kid.

Nobody does that! It's rude and callous as hell! And if you think you didn't do anything wrong, if you are THAT CLUELESS about dating etiquette and basic human decency, you're right--you shouldn't be dating.
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