Things were going really well until she pulled a 180?

[ultimateguy8]

Originally Posted by thegreenflute334

No, I am not saying anything about availability. You both sound passive and no one is aggressive. You've talked on the phone too much and somehow you both ended up in the friends mode. I can tell you that she was tired of talking on the phone. She lost patience.

Originally Posted by thegreenflute334

Like I said.. you both entered the friends mode. There is really no action going on here. Phones are detrimental and can ruin what you want to start

I can see where maybe me trying to talk on the phone with her too much hurt me. It just baffles me because she seemed to really enjoy talking to me on the phone and even called me up two days before things went south. I was just asking her to talk on the phone because she usually wasn't doing anything and it was 10x easier than texting her, which is what we would have been doing anyways.

Is it even possible for me to climb out of this "friends mode" I've found myself in?

[rachelmcandrew]

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[thegreenflute334]

Originally Posted by ultimateguy8

I can see where maybe me trying to talk on the phone with her too much hurt me. It just baffles me because she seemed to really enjoy talking to me on the phone and even called me up two days before things went south. I was just asking her to talk on the phone because she usually wasn't doing anything and it was 10x easier than texting her, which is what we would have been doing anyways.

Is it even possible for me to climb out of this "friends mode" I've found myself in?

Surprise her and just show up and say something like "Hey You! Where have you been?" then get her to smile. Grab her and don't give her time to make excuses. She's nervous obviously or being a chatterbox. ( You both are really) Throw the phone in the river for a month and see what happens.

Hope it works for you anyway.. if you try it.