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Because men's problems in dating for the most part are about how to get to the initial attraction phase and womens problems are the decisions that have to made after attraction is established/indicated. That's why most men's threads are on these subjects
"How do I ask a girl out"
"I'm a virgin/I've never had a GF at (insert age here)"
"How do I know she likes me"
Etc
And women's threads are on subjects like
"3 guys interested I don't know who to choose?"
"Should i go on a second date with him?"
"When is the right time to have sex with a guy?"
Etc
That's only on this forum. I've seen other forums where the women talk like the dudes here do--what are they doing wrong, bc nobody ever talks to them, should they get different clothes styles, should they do this or that. Less makeup, more makeup, what do dudes really like, "am I too shy", "am I too tall, the petite girls get all the attention", all kinds of stuff.
Most of the threads or posts by women are about the relationship they're in, while most of the threads or posts by men are about how to become attractive enough to get in a relationship. Different set of issues, I guess.
I've noticed both issues with both sides of the parties.
However, I have also noticed people see what they want to see. Ruth4truth pretty much got it right. A lot of males here (internet general) really don't think women don't have it harder or just as hard to find a relationship. It all just boils down to people being happy with themselves, and being comfortable enough to show their real selves around others. If they don't accept you as you all, why change for them?
Women don't have it hard. If they say they do, they're lying.
I think there's a tendency for women here to overuse the word "misogynist." Just because a guy doesn't think women are "sugar and spice and everything nice", doesn't mean he hates women. Lots of us get our views about the dating world from objective observations we've made, and we don't see any point of sugarcoating these realities.
I do appreciate the women in this forum who try to get us men to have more optimistic views of the dating world, but those of us who are analytical realists just don't buy into the tripe.
Because men's problems in dating for the most part are about how to get to the initial attraction phase and womens problems are the decisions that have to made after attraction is established/indicated. That's why most men's threads are on these subjects
"How do I ask a girl out"
"I'm a virgin/I've never had a GF at (insert age here)"
"How do I know she likes me"
Etc
And women's threads are on subjects like
"3 guys interested I don't know who to choose?"
"Should i go on a second date with him?"
"When is the right time to have sex with a guy?"
Etc
Women don't have it hard. If they say they do, they're lying.
It's true. Women--all ages and from all backgrounds--have much easier lives than men in every way. I am not sure why more men do not go in for gender reassignment surgery so they can reap the massive social, economic and health benefits of being female.
Women don't have it hard. If they say they do, they're lying.
Oh are you a woman?
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