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A lot of people will just tell you what they think you wanna hear. Not me...I think it's still very early in your dating relationship with her, so you don't have any power to sway this one way or another. I think there is probably more to it than just friends, there may be some history there. I've also been told the friend lie before. She driving 6 hours to hang out? Really?
My bad, OP said 5hours. I was thinking stopping to buy gas, food, and condoms, Lol
It could easily be platonic. But even if it isn't, you aren't even really dating yet, let alone exclusively dating. If you want to solidify a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship with her that's something you should openly discuss with her.
I met this girl online and things have been going well and I asked what her schedule was like next weekend and she said she is driving 6 hours to Virginia to see a male friend who she went to college with and is spending the weekend down there
So I am not sure what to make of this and deciding whether or not I should still take her seriously. She shows me interest and calls and send good morning texts so the interest is there but this visit to see a friend doesn't sound right. What do you think ladies? I didn't want to pry too much but all she said was it's a friend she went to college with. Also when I was trying to imply something she sounded like she was about to get annoyed with me so I backed off. But then again I don't want to believe she would be telling me about this trip if she knows I have interest in dating her.
It's truly sexual between us. Other wise we have no connection. Keep working on charming her, I think she likes you, and the sex with me won't be as good anymore. You haven't been seeing her that long....relax
Not to freak you out ok, but my suggestion is to keep busy and don't let it drive you crazy, because the truth is you will never know the truth. I had a girlfriend that told me the exact same thing that the guy was a friend but found out she was sleeping with him.
My ex-wife told me she had it in het mind to cheat on me when she had met with an old boyfriend over coffee but nothing happened and that they were just friends...Found out later that that was half truth and half lie just to allaymy concerns...She actually did sleep with him...the truth eventually came out...But one should not put claims on a woman until he puts a ring on the finger...dating is dating...engagement/marriage is different...
I met this girl online and things have been going well and I asked what her schedule was like next weekend and she said she is driving 6 hours to Virginia to see a male friend who she went to college with and is spending the weekend down there
So I am not sure what to make of this and deciding whether or not I should still take her seriously. She shows me interest and calls and send good morning texts so the interest is there but this visit to see a friend doesn't sound right. What do you think ladies? I didn't want to pry too much but all she said was it's a friend she went to college with. Also when I was trying to imply something she sounded like she was about to get annoyed with me so I backed off. But then again I don't want to believe she would be telling me about this trip if she knows I have interest in dating her.
stop obsessing already! you've been with her 3 times and now you are debating if it's ok she sees her friend???? do her a favor and stop talking to her
It's truly sexual between us. Other wise we have no connection. Keep working on charming her, I think she likes you, and the sex with me won't be as good anymore. You haven't been seeing her that long....relax
You've been on three dates and already you are going steady? She is wearing your class ring? You have mutually agreed to be exclusive?
In that case, you have the right to ask her a few more polite questions about the friend she is seeing. Otherwise, it really isn't any of your business.
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