Does she still like me? Should I text her or give up? (date, girlfriend)

[DavieJ89]

There is a girl I met back in January, she lives in NY I'm in FL, at first we really hit it off right away, and I asked her out on valentines day and she said yes, then on spring break I flew up there to meet her and everything seemed perfect

After I got back, she said that she loved me but wasn't ready to be in a relationship yet, and that we moved too fast. (We had already talked about moving in together about a week after we met) to which I agreed that we did go too fast.

For a while though we continue texting each other every day or nearly every day, though I found myself initiating the conversation more and more, she still even called me "my love" or "babe" but more "my love"

She is finishing college this year, so I know she is been real busy but she seems to text me less & they are not the same flirty text messages we used to send one another.

Then this past Saturday I tried calling her and she completely ignored it, even though it said she was online on her Skype.

Then yesterday I posted on Facebook how I have an interview for a job promotion, and she was the first person to like the status and then comment "Good luck my love!" but other than that I have not heard from her.
Should I call her or text her?
Is she even into me still?

And idk if this matters but her about me section on Facebook still says "I'm taken by a wonderful man in Florida..." And goes on to say how our anniversary is Valentine's Day, & that "it is a blessing to call him mine"

[intelfan11315]

Sounds like you moved so fast you kind of freaked her out. You're gonna have to put things on the back burner BIG TIME.

How does a conversation about move in together in the first week even come up? In the first week I'm usually hoping I can remember her name.

[DavieJ89]

She and I were talking to each other nonstop at first and she was the one who even brought it up

[zentropa]

How many times have you actually seen each other? Are you sleeping together?

This sounds suspiciously like a fantasy relationship on both sides, styled more for bragging on FB than an actual future.

[usamathman]

I am pretty sure you are not the only dude she is entertaining.

The facebook stuff is complete B.S.

Do yourself a favor and find a woman in Florida.

You don't need the stress.

[intelfan11315]

Yeah, women like this will come on really strong and make up this whole fantasy and then get bored and do it again with someone else. If you try to get away from them they turn passive agressive and play the victim.

I met a girl like this in Tampa. Something seemed off from the start, I gave it two weeks and then had to get out of there haha. She texted me nonstop for a week telling me how much she missed me and how she wanted to start a life together. Yes, 2 weeks. lol

[JoeCollege]

So you've met her once in 6 months?

Dude, you have a penpal you fantasize about, not a girlfriend.

[ipaper]

Sounds like she got bored pretty quick, you guys just moved at wrap speed and things just fizzled out quick as a result. Also, if she is graduating from a university then I'm sure she is very excited and very busy with preparation to move, last minute details, and contact with family. Just back off and give her time and space and see what happens after graduation. During this very busy and special time, I'm sure you are pretty low on the priority scale, her focus is not on you at the moment. Her big day should be coming up real soon.

[timberline742]

Originally Posted by JoeCollege

Dude, you have a penpal you fantasize about, not a girlfriend.

This

[ocnjgirl]

Originally Posted by DavieJ89

There is a girl I met back in January, she lives in NY I'm in FL, at first we really hit it off right away, and I asked her out on valentines day and she said yes, then on spring break I flew up there to meet her and everything seemed perfect

After I got back, she said that she loved me but wasn't ready to be in a relationship yet, and that we moved too fast. (We had already talked about moving in together about a week after we met) to which I agreed that we did go too fast.

For a while though we continue texting each other every day or nearly every day, though I found myself initiating the conversation more and more, she still even called me "my love" or "babe" but more "my love"

She is finishing college this year, so I know she is been real busy but she seems to text me less & they are not the same flirty text messages we used to send one another.

Then this past Saturday I tried calling her and she completely ignored it, even though it said she was online on her Skype.

Then yesterday I posted on Facebook how I have an interview for a job promotion, and she was the first person to like the status and then comment "Good luck my love!" but other than that I have not heard from her.
Should I call her or text her?
Is she even into me still?

And idk if this matters but her about me section on Facebook still says "I'm taken by a wonderful man in Florida..." And goes on to say how our anniversary is Valentine's Day, & that "it is a blessing to call him mine"

Yet you're still behaving as if you hadn't heard her, like you are in a relationship. You should have backed off contacting her every day, contact her no more than twice a week, and look for local girls to date so you're not so invested in this one that you keep crowding her.