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So there is nothing wrong with putting holes in a condom?
You have no proof. You were drunk, you have no idea what happened. For all you know, you may have gotten some pre-*** on her in the crucial area before the condom went on. You have no idea what happened. I wonder, do you have alcoholic tendencies? That doesn't bode well for success in life.
You have no proof. You were drunk, you have no idea what happened. For all you know, you may have gotten some pre-*** on her in the crucial area before the condom went on. You have no idea what happened. I wonder, do you have alcoholic tendencies?
I can function without drinking so yeah I'm not an alcoholic.
They weren't in a committed relationship, so I'm not sure why you are going off in a diatribe about that. They were FWB. Bottom line...he was the dumbass for trusting anyone else with birth control. If he doesn't want to become a father he'll stop ****ing while drunk and HE will bring his own condoms and use them correctly each and every time. Even then, he can't expect to be protected 100%.
If you want children then their should be a plan. Here's a wild idea women, use contraception unless you're sure he wants kids.....NO BRAINER. If he wants kids, he'll happily sign the paper at town hall or get married. Otherwise don't expect him to pay for your stupidity.
As a 63 yr old female, I totally agree with you. I've seen so many men trapped by unethical, scheming females. It is disgusting. I feel very sorry for men. They should not have to pay child support for any child they did not agree to have. And women shouldn't be allowed to go on welfare for all their illegitimate kids. Now, since men have this problem, they should indeed get fixed and have some sperm frozen if they think in the future they want a child. We women sure do have it easier in this area. [Mod cut.]
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Try to keep your composure and don't become disrespectful OP. You had to know by now that you would be getting all sorts of replies to your thread. People here have the right to be skeptical about your claim and its a given that some are going to be tougher on you than others. It is kind of hard seeing you as a victim when you put yourself in that situation by getting so drunk that you didn't have much control of things. Also, if you were so drunk and out of it, did you see here do this or this is just your best guess is to how she got pregnant. When you post things on here you are not always going to get what you want to hear. You have to be ready for all types and be ready to take it like a man or a woman when you put things out there on a public forum.
They weren't in a committed relationship, so I'm not sure why you are going off in a diatribe about that. They were FWB. Bottom line...he was the dumbass for trusting anyone else with birth control. If he doesn't want to become a father he'll stop ****ing while drunk and HE will bring his own condoms and use them correctly each and every time. Even then, he can't expect to be protected 100%.
Is this really a judgement again FWB?
He's the victim here(assuming this was a real story). He's a dumbass for believing the woman he's sleeping with isn't a conniving manipulative nutcase? Trusting a friend is perfectly normal. That's like blaming the rape victim for walking home alone at night. You can't be protected doing that! There's risk!
Hey maybe some of you have a son and can relate. My oh my. The LIAR is the perpetrator here.
He's the victim here(assuming this was a real story). He's a dumbass for believing the woman he's sleeping with isn't a conniving manipulative nutcase? Trusting a friend is perfectly normal. That's like blaming the rape victim for walking home alone at night. You can't be protected doing that! There's risk!
Hey maybe some of you have a son and can relate. My oh my. The LIAR is the perpetrator here.
I've been FWB with this girl for a while. One time when we were going at it I was drunk and she offered to put on the condom for me. I think she deliberately put holes in it with her nails. I was supposed to be leaving my town for a big city soon and she seemed saddened when I told her. Now she is conveniently pregnant as soon as I'm about to leave. She even did the test in front of me. What should I do? She wants to keep the kid and I don't want it. She even suggested marriage but I don't want to get married this young. I need help
Pay your child support and next time get a brain -- and a vasectomy. You don't want kids -- then don't have sex without a vasectomy.
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