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We seem to have overlooked two crucial points in this thread. The first is the very grave danger of intrusion by law-enforcement. America is a puritanical country, and few "crimes" offer as much low-risk and high-return potential for law-enforcement to pounce, as so-called "vice". Be wary of any scheme of money-for-sex. The danger is especially grave for female customers, as males have the option of traveling to rural Nevada.
The second point is that our level of attractiveness and our social-skills are moot, if we fail to circulate amongst good prospects. An attractive women surrounded exclusively by upstanding married men will not find herself in a situation with strong potential for either romantic relationships, or even for casual sex. And if she drops hints to be "set up", the likely upshot is opprobrium and embarrassment, setback in her career and general scorn. Sometimes I really wonder where people on this forum live and work!
Well there's lifestyle clubs too. I only heard about them recently. But I think those are legal. And people go there to hook up. Singles, couples, etc. And if it's a good one, they try to be clean as possible. One woman I know described one she went to, and talked about how cautious they were there.
But, again, not as guaranteed as an Escort where they'll be more inclined to go one the woman's terms and make the experience pleasurable for her.
So, I think if a woman is indeed not sexual experienced, or completely a virgin, but she wants sex, an escort will be her best shot, but you just have to find some lol. Unless she goes for some toys, and a female prostitute lol
As for living, some people may live in rural ares. And while there's people-and it's not deserted, pickings are slim. Even for sex stuff. Like some rural areas that have no sex shops, strip clubs, lifestyle clubs, etc. Their best bet is bringing in someone off the street, or driving 30 min to an hour to get to some good places. So, if one does live in a small town, or rural setting and their dating life sucks, then moving is their best option, where they can cast a line and be exposed to more diverse people. Some places are just not good for having a booming love life.
I live in a small rural area, and I will say hardly anything is here. So, for dating, I am not gonna be doing such until I head for a more populated area. A larger town, or city. But there's plenty of drunks, obnoxious guys, thugs, and vagrants here--like my neighbors for example. Ghetto, drunks, and/or obnoxious. lol
So, for now, I could say 50% of my issues are where I live. The other 50% may be my looks, and/or could be my social personality. In any case, I am working on all 3.
Also, if you count on bars to meet people, that won't work. very few people meet class acts in bars. Good for hooking up, but not a good setting for love, and serious commitment lol
I have been told by family all the time that I have a good body. it gets annoying really. And I have pix online, and many guys, some multiple times, comment on my pix and tell me I am, pretty, sex, hot, beautiful,e etc. So I don't guess I am a coyote, but apparently I am not in a good place to meet any grand men, or even average ones for that matter. So, my environment may very well be part of my issue, rather than pure unattractiveness alone. And I am shy, so that doesn't help.
As for living, some people may live in rural ares. And while there's people-and it's not deserted, pickings are slim. Even for sex stuff. Like some rural areas that have no sex shops, strip clubs, lifestyle clubs, etc. Their best bet is bringing in someone off the street, or driving 30 min to an hour to get to some good places. So, if one does live in a small town, or rural setting and their dating life sucks, then moving is their best option, where they can cast a line and be exposed to more diverse people. Some places are just not good for having a booming love life.
I live in a small rural area, and I will say hardly anything is here. So, for dating, I am not gonna be doing such until I head for a more populated area. A larger town, or city. But there's plenty of drunks, obnoxious guys, thugs, and vagrants here--like my neighbors for example. Ghetto, drunks, and/or obnoxious. lol
Um....the reason rural Nevada was mentioned is that prostitution is legal in Nevada outside of Las Vegas and (IIRC) Reno.
Um....the reason rural Nevada was mentioned is that prostitution is legal in Nevada outside of Las Vegas and (IIRC) Reno.
Oh I know lol The rest was agreeing with the poster, but directed at the OP as well, and in general for why some women don't have high dating options. Where you live and who you're surrounded by can play a part in your dating life.
I didn't mean relationships. I mean the threads you do in general. People with grand social lives wouldn't be on a computer on a social forum that often. You'd be talking to friends, or getting laid. And single means unattached. If you're not married, but in a relationship, your status is "taken."
So, the fact you spend alot of time here, and even replied so much to this topic seems to point you're just all talk, or trying to frunt over the internet. If you have a girlfriend, or ****, then you don't need to tell and brag. Just laugh at the unattached people, and go see your honey.
And if you post at work, shows your work ethic isn't too grand either. Point is, for someone that claims to be totally indifferent to people's lives, you sure like to argue and engage alot.
So, I just think you try to sound like a busy badass. But you're just all talk. You sound like a loud guy that would try to overcompensate.
If my social life is of no concern to you, at least not enough to care for at all, yhen you shouldn't have bothered quoting any of my posts in the 1st place.
You're the one that started this whole debate, then trying to act badass and say your a ladies man.
Lol, Welcome to 2014, most people use some type of social media. Whether it be Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, linkedin or CD. And yes I post mostly at work, I'm still able to get my job done, its called multi tasking. Something that people who are competent are able to do. But you wouldn't know that since you don't work and you still live with your parents.
Lol, Welcome to 2014, most people use some type of social media. Whether it be Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, linkedin or CD. And yes I post mostly at work, I'm still able to get my job done, its called multi tasking. Something that people who are competent are able to do. But you wouldn't know that since you don't work and you still live with your parents.
Ha. I have worked before, but had to quit because I didn't get good hours. And I still live home. So what? I can afford to. I am not ashamed about it in the slightest, and have over 4500 dollars saved up and still saving.. if I am 35, and still at home, then i'll worry, and/or be ashamed. lol
You may live on your own. but you're probably in debt, and can't pay bills, if you even have the so-called job you have.
So, I doubt your life is as busy as you make it, and you don't have all the girls you brag about. So, alot of barking, and no bite.
And then trying to judge other people. Your PP says you a Christian. But if you're this hateful and judgmental, you're a total hypocrite. So, you may need to spend less time with your sluts, and more time in Church, if you believe in any of it. lol So, work on your judgement and hypocrisy, both of which God frowns on.
Ha. I have worked before, but had to quit because I didn't get good hours. And I still live home. So what? I can afford to.I am not ashamed about it in the slightest, and have over 4500 dollars saved up and still saving.. if I am 30 and still at home, then i'll worry. lol My parents are roommates at best. I live her because apartments are expensive, and there's not any jobs in my area. I have to move to get that, plus an apartment. So, I am doing what works for me, and no shame in it.
You may live on your own. but you're probably in debt, and can't pay bills, if you even have the so-called job you have.
So, I doubt your life is as busy as you make it, and you don't have all the girls you brag about. So, alot of barking, and no bite.
And then trying to judge other people. Your PP says you a Christian. But if you're this hateful and judgmental, you're a total hypocrite. So, you may need to spen less time with yout sluts, and more time in Church, if you believe in any of it.
Your case in invalid. But if you're finally done replying, that's fine with me. So, God bless you. He really needs to to improve your trashy attitude, and good luck with your hurting pee-pee. Hopefully ya didn't catch anything from all you sluts you have.
Why couldn't you have sex with someone roughly your own attractiveness?
In answer to your question, OP, no I don't think it's wrong. However, it's most certainly NOT what you should do in your situation, and you will wind up with hurt feelings.
Why would her feelings be hurt? It's just a business transaction.
Many times on here it's been suggested that men should just go to the backpage or get a hooker. Is it okay then for single women to seek out male escorts for the same thing? Is it as easy? I can't say I haven't considered this option in the past since I can't meet 'regular' men any other ways.
Is it okay? Absolutely. Personally, I think the stigma associated with it needs to go away, whether via legalization or simply education. Look at how certain members in this thread are letting their true feelings show when they get angry. These are the same people who would tell a guy to "just go to backpage or get a hooker" and then throw insults at him when he does.
Is it as easy? Not even close. The supply exists to meet the demand, and there simply isn't a demand. I knew a couple of male escorts, but it didn't work like how we typically assume it would. More often than not, rather than looking for sex, the women were looking for company. In most cases, it was to bring an attractive, well-spoken man to an event where they felt they would be judged for showing up alone....weddings, etc. Sex was rarely the primary intent, these women just wanted a sophisticated, attractive man to bring as proverbial "arm candy". If the guy was REALLY good (and one of them that I knew was), he made the woman feel as if they had a genuine connection, and at that point they typically wanted to have sex. But it almost always began with a wealthy, often older or divorced woman who wanted some intelligent, attractive company for the evening more than someone who wanted to get laid.
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