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View Poll Results: Is it okay for women to seek male escorts for sex?
Woman: Yes it is okay for a woman to seek male escorts 32 36.78%
Woman: No it's not okay for a woman to seek male escorts 4 4.60%
Man: Yes it is okay for a woman to seek male escorts 44 50.57%
Man: No it's not okay for a woman to seek male escorts 7 8.05%
Voters: 87. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 06-24-2014, 12:00 PM
 
Location: Redwood Shores, Ca
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Disagree on the notion that pent up sexual frustration is harder for a gal than a guy as I imagine it to be equal grounds. However on your post. It seems your partner is quite a lucky gal.
Women are more sexually frustrated then men, just looking at the statistics prove that. The reason this is true, is this fact.....think about the numbers of women who don't have orgasms during sex. Only 25% of women are consistently having orgasms during intercourse. 25%!!!! It's surprising and a testament to the commitment women have for a relationship. Why do I say this? Imagine if you consistently were denied orgasm when having sex, that you would sometimes get close, but ultimately would fall short. If that happened to men, men would be so frustrated, they wouldn't have it. If men could only orgasm via masturbation, men would probably only do that!...lol....it's ridiculous I know, but if you think about it, not really.
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Old 06-24-2014, 12:05 PM
 
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Women are more sexually frustrated then men, just looking at the statistics prove that. The reason this is true, is this fact.....think about the numbers of women who don't have orgasms during sex. Only 25% of women are consistently having orgasms during intercourse. 25%!!!! It's surprising and a testament to the commitment women have for a relationship. Why do I say this? Imagine if you consistently were denied orgasm when having sex, that you would sometimes get close, but ultimately would fall short. If that happened to men, men would be so frustrated, they wouldn't have it. If men could only orgasm via masturbation, men would probably only do that!...lol....it's ridiculous I know, but if you think about it, not really.
Egh I didn't disagree on the notion that gals are more sexually frustrated than guys. I disagreed on the notion that sexual frustration is harder for gals than guys. Those are different matters.

'Disagree on the notion that pent up sexual frustration is harder for a gal than a guy ' =/ 'gals aren't more sexually frustrated than guys'

I already know about the orgasm gap as I mentioned it repeatedly in regards to why I think male escorts make sense as they would likely be more willing and eager to produce a female orgasm as they have a monetary incentive.
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Old 06-24-2014, 12:13 PM
 
Location: NW Nevada
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Disagree on the notion that pent up sexual frustration is harder for a gal than a guy as I imagine it to be equal grounds. However on your post. It seems your partner is quite a lucky gal.
Well...as to why I believe its harder to deal with sexual frustration for a woman, its my opinion of course, but from the comparisons I've made I factored in some handicapps for the gals. I considered things like periods, .menopause, other miscellaneous issues with female plumbing, and tied that in with sexual tension as the cherry on top.

As a man, I look at how that effects me, personally, and use that for my premise, since I'm fairly representative ofquite a few men, but doing the math beyond that and breaking down percentages of types of men for the purpose of CD postings seemed a bit....tedious. lmao. When I get that way, I can be cranky, and when I was lots younger it would manifest in anger. Not at the opposite sex or playing an environmental blame game. It was just normal youngster stuff. I could always easily get a grip by getting outdoors and doing something.

Women can do that too, but having go do it with cramps, or the trots, or having to pee every half hour, on and on is not something I totally get. Lol never had those issues. So, I ceded some extra points to the gals in forming my opinion.
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Old 06-24-2014, 12:33 PM
 
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Well...as to why I believe its harder to deal with sexual frustration for a woman, its my opinion of course, but from the comparisons I've made I factored in some handicapps for the gals. I considered things like periods, .menopause, other miscellaneous issues with female plumbing, and tied that in with sexual tension as the cherry on top.

As a man, I look at how that effects me, personally, and use that for my premise, since I'm fairly representative ofquite a few men, but doing the math beyond that and breaking down percentages of types of men for the purpose of CD postings seemed a bit....tedious. lmao. When I get that way, I can be cranky, and when I was lots younger it would manifest in anger. Not at the opposite sex or playing an environmental blame game. It was just normal youngster stuff. I could always easily get a grip by getting outdoors and doing something.

Women can do that too, but having go do it with cramps, or the trots, or having to pee every half hour, on and on is not something I totally get. Lol never had those issues. So, I ceded some extra points to the gals in forming my opinion.
Amusing but understandable reasoning in my opinion.
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Old 06-24-2014, 01:37 PM
 
Location: NW Nevada
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Amusing but understandable reasoning in my opinion.
Well, another thing I've found works really good in keeping a relationship with a woman nice and fresh is humor. If your laughing, you're at ease, if you're at ease, you communicate better with each other. So, IMHO, even, especially actually, the more serious issues should approached with the proper degree of humor. It helps keep things in proper perspective, and balances things out. Keeps the negative stuff from tipping the scales and causing undo stress.

Keeping my girl laughing, so I can laugh with her, ...that's my job.
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Old 06-24-2014, 02:25 PM
 
Location: Chicagoland
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I mentioned it repeatedly in regards to why I think male escorts make sense as they would likely be more willing and eager to produce a female orgasm as they have a monetary incentive.
Agree... Perhaps their client should also offer extra tip/commission for each one.
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Old 06-24-2014, 02:34 PM
 
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Agree... Perhaps their client should also offer extra tip/commission for each one.
I'm not seeing why the client should also offer extra tip/commission for each one as I don't find that to be general practice for male clients that use female prostitutes. In my opinion gals already get the short end of the stick when it comes to sex I don't see a reason to shaft gals when it comes to paid sex as well.
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Old 06-24-2014, 02:37 PM
 
Location: southern california
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i dont think the wealthy women i know use them for sex that much.
i think being seen in public with a model is a boost for most older women.
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Old 06-24-2014, 02:53 PM
 
Location: Redwood Shores, Ca
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Wow, unbelievable! You will give a crappy waiter a 25-30% tip for carrying your plate from the kitchen to your table and back. To grind pepper onto your salad, and refresh your drink....but when an orgasm is so elusive for some women, you don't feel the service of getting her there isn't tipable? A waiter won't get TMJ from making you happy, like an escort might, doing it for a woman! lol
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Old 06-24-2014, 03:00 PM
 
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Wow, unbelievable! You will give a crappy waiter a 25-30% tip for carrying your plate from the kitchen to your table and back. To grind pepper onto your salad, and refresh your drink....but when an orgasm is so elusive for some women, you don't feel the service of getting her there isn't tipable? A waiter won't get TMJ from making you happy, like an escort might, doing it for a woman! lol
Egh many waiters don't get such tips.

I don't see the reason in paying a tip for each orgasm when it's seemingly not general practice for male clients to tip for each orgasm they get. As well as to me the escort is being paid to perform the acts so it's suited for him to perform to the goal- an orgasm.

In my opinion at the point of tipping for each orgasm it's far better off for gals just to masturbate seeing as the free sex they get is pretty much useless for orgasms and the paid sex they get may only be useful if they tip for each one something male clients don't do.
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