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Old 06-26-2014, 03:48 PM
 
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My girlfriend revealed to me that she had been in an abusive relationship in the past. What should I do? I don;t know if it can continue since she's damaged good. What should I do?

 
Old 06-26-2014, 05:37 PM
 
Location: Concord, California
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Are you for real? If its such a deal breaker to you then do her a favor and don't continue wasting her time.
 
Old 06-26-2014, 05:43 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Tell her what you wrote here and let HER decide.

 
Old 06-26-2014, 05:43 PM
 
Location: NW Nevada
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This one smells like a nasty old troll under a bridge to me. Can this get any more obvious?
 
Old 06-26-2014, 05:44 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Waka Flocka Flame View Post
My girlfriend revealed to me that she had been in an abusive relationship in the past. What should I do? I don;t know if it can continue since she's damaged good. What should I do?
So what.

Are you afraid she might beat you up?

To clear your head ask what happened. Find out why, what type (physical, emotional, sexual) details may unload a lot of unnecessary worry.
 
Old 06-26-2014, 05:46 PM
 
Location: Redwood Shores, Ca
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with one post, you could be a troll, but in case you aren't then, sit down, you need to learn something.....calling a woman, who has been abused, damaged goods, is very disrespectful, it's hurtful, and mentally damaging for her. So in her case, I hope you didn't, but I'm sure you did. Just break up with the girl, and let her be, better hurry though, she is about to break up with you, something about you forgetting your lunch bag? She said you don't have a sack.
 
Old 06-26-2014, 05:47 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Are you for real?
No, not for real.

This is the "what should I do?" thread poster, recycled.
 
Old 06-26-2014, 05:53 PM
 
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OP:

There has to be something better for you to do other than post a ridiculous thread like this one.

Something much more productive than this.
 
Old 06-26-2014, 05:56 PM
 
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My girlfriend revealed to me that she had been in an abusive relationship in the past. What should I do? I don;t know if it can continue since she's damaged good. What should I do?

She's damaged goods? Seriously? Have you looked in the.... never mind...

If you can't handle her past then leave her alone but keep in mind you should leave every woman alone because everyone has a past, just like you.
 
Old 06-26-2014, 06:02 PM
 
Location: NW Nevada
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with one post, you could be a troll, but in case you aren't then, sit down, you need to learn something.....calling a woman, who has been abused, damaged goods, is very disrespectful, it's hurtful, and mentally damaging for her. So in her case, I hope you didn't, but I'm sure you did. Just break up with the girl, and let her be, better hurry though, she is about to break up with you, something about you forgetting your lunch bag? She said you don't have a sack.
(Applause) Yea.....no truer words. I can't hardly fathom that term. Its lower'n whale dung on my dislike meter. Matter of fact, it bristles me straight the F up. Makes my mouth taste bad and that need a shower bad feeling comes with being anywhere a mile downwind of any varmint that could use such a term. Kinda my take on that.

It would be nice if medical science can figure out all the accidents of birth things that only kills the conscience and leaves the crap that's left to live and walk amongst us.

Last edited by NVplumber; 06-26-2014 at 06:32 PM.. Reason: venting
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