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Old 07-20-2014, 04:04 PM
 
Location: H-town, TX.
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Nope.

No matter what the media will spin, you really have to be living one hell of a dirty lifestyle to catch HIV. It ain't gonna' happen with a blood transfusion in the first world and a FB friend of mine had a died who died just from that. But, that was the old days.



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I wouldn't seek it out but possibly. Who am I to judge. I don't like being judged.
You should judge. That's just common sense. If you are living right, then you have nothing to be worried about.


Psa 37:30 The mouth of the righteous speaketh wisdom, and his tongue talketh of judgment.
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Old 07-20-2014, 04:29 PM
 
Location: My House
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Nope.

No matter what the media will spin, you really have to be living one hell of a dirty lifestyle to catch HIV. It ain't gonna' happen with a blood transfusion in the first world and a FB friend of mine had a died who died just from that. But, that was the old days.





You should judge. That's just common sense. If you are living right, then you have nothing to be worried about.


Psa 37:30 The mouth of the righteous speaketh wisdom, and his tongue talketh of judgment.
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Old 07-20-2014, 08:15 PM
 
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Now you knew this was going to be a 100% "NOs" and "Hell Nos" before you even asked this question
There was one "maybe," and another who said yes with caveat (like the quote below).

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The only way I think I would do that is if I also had it.
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I myself have no STDs or health issues, and I would get involved in an LTR with an amazing person with HIV. I knew a platonic acquaintance with HIV. I saw this person really living life and not take time for granted. An inspiration.

Do you think that people who live with HIV would be open to get romantically involved with someone who doesn't have an STD? Or do they feel they have more in common in the long run with people who have the same virus?
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Old 07-20-2014, 08:33 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I probably wouldn't just for a myriad of reasons... feel bad for the HIV crowd... but it is what it is......
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Old 07-20-2014, 08:37 PM
 
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Yes, I would, if they have suppressed viral load. The chances of getting HIV from someone who has been on meds for 6 months or more is miniscule. Condoms though, for sure.

Then again, I am extremely educated on this issue; not everyone is--yet. There is really no need for stigma in 2014.
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Old 07-20-2014, 08:41 PM
 
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No. I would eventually want to have biological children and would see the risk as too high for transmission not just for myself, but to the child if I were to become infected as well.
You are very wrong about the risk. Mother-to-child transmission is almost unheard of in the developed world when mothers receive standard prenatal care.
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Old 07-20-2014, 09:10 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Alright... I'll just say it... I want to go native and raw without strapping up with a set of galoshes....

Does that make me bad???
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Old 07-20-2014, 09:14 PM
 
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Alright... I'll just say it... I want to go native and raw without strapping up with a set of galoshes....

Does that make me bad???
Not at all. But some people are worth it. And they make it work. I know several couples who are HIV "discordant" but they are as happy as anyone else.
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Old 07-21-2014, 08:00 AM
 
Location: Went around the corner & now I'm lost!!!!
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There was one "maybe," and another who said yes with caveat (like the quote below).


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I myself have no STDs or health issues, and I would get involved in an LTR with an amazing person with HIV. I knew a platonic acquaintance with HIV. I saw this person really living life and not take time for granted. An inspiration.

I guess if I got the virus I would live life to the fullest also because after getting it "Life" has more meaning

Do you think that people who live with HIV would be open to get romantically involved with someone who doesn't have an STD? Or do they feel they have more in common in the long run with people who have the same virus?

I don't know.



Also viruses, like bacteria, mutate over time becoming more resistive to the medication as you have seen with MRSA, C-diff and VRE in the hospitals (and now in the gerenal public I must add but they haven't told you lay people about that tho). They are becoming stronger than the medications for these illnesses. It's called survival and all living organism will try to survive and reproduce it offspring; it called translation in the microbiology world
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Old 07-21-2014, 08:12 AM
 
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Nope...never.
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