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It depends, but it seems that the more of yourself you give into the relationship, the longer, and tougher it is to move on from it. If you only invested 50% into the relationship, then it won't take too much time. But if you put all the chips in, and reached in the pockets and pulled more out....say you were 110% invested in the relationship, then you are going to take some time to recover. For those who go in at 100%+, they will try at all costs, to keep the relationship, they may stay years past the shelf life.
On TV yesterday, a guy brokeup with his girlfriend, and he was hurting after. He fainted in his pool, but was luckily survived. It was clear that he was hurting. How long does a relationship hurt and how bad does it hurt, from a scale of 1-10. (1-Less Hurt, 10-Hurts badly)
That guy who broke up with his girlfriend, or ex, is a weak and needy male. Relationships should end simply because you two are going a different route in life. With that being said, it will only hurt so much as you allow it to hurt. This guy clearly let it take over him- a sign of weakness thus a man out of his masculine core.
1-10 I would be at the 0 category. My emotions and mental state are always in check.
LOL. You make it sound as though 5 months is a long time.
I consider myself to be a pretty rational, self-controlled woman, but 5 months would be a pretty short time for me to get over someone I felt very strongly for.
On TV yesterday, a guy brokeup with his girlfriend, and he was hurting after. He fainted in his pool, but was luckily survived. It was clear that he was hurting. How long does a relationship hurt and how bad does it hurt, from a scale of 1-10. (1-Less Hurt, 10-Hurts badly)
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Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life
It depends on the person.
yep, it depends on the person. i for instance dont let a break up get to me. i understand that all relationships are transitory in nature, some may be long term, some may be short term, but they all end at some point. and since that is the case, it does no good to dwell on the past or what could have been. we have to be moving forward.
On TV yesterday, a guy brokeup with his girlfriend, and he was hurting after. He fainted in his pool, but was luckily survived. It was clear that he was hurting. How long does a relationship hurt and how bad does it hurt, from a scale of 1-10. (1-Less Hurt, 10-Hurts badly)
Depends on how deeply connected two people are? There isn't a number to describe the pain one feels inside.
Heartache can feel like a 10 or eternity like lifetimes.. eons and yonder.
Last edited by kat949; 07-27-2014 at 11:39 AM..
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