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I never really figured out how to do this. Anyone have any tips?
Focus on being his soft place to fall
When you are out or just together keep things light and fun. Offer him foot massages and home cooked goodies when you can, things that let him know you want to help him de-stress.
When you are out or just together keep things light and fun. Offer him foot massages and home cooked goodies when you can, things that let him know you want to help him de-stress.
Give him his space, and he has to leave his stress outside the relationship of you two agree to date. I don't get why it is so hard? When he is not busy, then you two can spend time together. Plenty of people do it. There is not much to go on so this is my answer.
It depends and everyone is different. Does he want to go out after and blow off steam? Soak in a hot tub with a chardonnay?
When I had a stressful job I always needed around an hour of quiet to unwind before I was fit to socialize.
It's a really general question....
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Down time is rare. An escape is needed. Usually activity that keeps you moving. The emotional downswings are the worst. Support and understanding is a must. A dark gallows sense of black humor is also helpful. 13 years years of the swing for hyper vigilance to utter depression takes a huge toll. It was a factor in the failure of my first marriage.
Down time is rare. An escape is needed. Usually activity that keeps you moving. The emotional downswings are the worst. Support and understanding is a must. A dark gallows sense of black humor is also helpful. 13 years years of the swing for hyper vigilance to utter depression takes a huge toll. It was a factor in the failure of my first marriage.
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