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It depends on the size of her insecurity. Can't be too big when blouse buttons start to snap.
That happens with modestly sized natural breasts too...it can be a chest to waist proportion issue (buttoned top fits waist but is snug over bust) or poorly made clothing (higher end clothing has little details like better spacing of buttons and hidden inside buttons). My boobs aren't big and I still get the button popping.
Nope. I've turned down dates with women I knew were plastic. Just one of those things that are a major turnoff for me. It also throws up serious red flags about self-esteem and being fake (as a person.) I could understand if it was done due to physical damage from an accident or cancer, but not just to have bigger jugs.
Interesting, the women i have known with fake boobs have all had high self esteem
There are always exceptions. I didn't mean to paint an entire brush.
Secondly, I didn't assume anything. I have hooked up with women with fake breasts. The girls I know that have gotten implants do fall into the category I described.
However, I know women who got reductions, or reshaped after birth. I mentally included these procedures under medical in my post.
Of course, and I didn't mean everything in response to you specifically, more so just the idea that women with fake breasts = easy or sexual or whatever, because I find a lot of men in general tend to think that way (although it's usually the way the woman dresses or presents herself, not necessarily the implants as the causal factor). It's okay to prefer one over the other, it's a personal preference.. heck, if Icould have real breasts myself I probably would lol.
I feel like because of porn and magazines, men look at implants as this super sexual thing that can only correlate to wanting to attract men, and it's usually not. Breasts are biological for a lot of us, we're physically designed to have them. But a lot of us don't. Some are okay with that and rock their small chests, which is fantastic. Some of us are more bothered by it. I mean, if you're born a male but born with no penis, or one sooo small it was basically non-existant, wouldn't you feel like less of a man? Would you really feel totally okay with your body and totally comfortable in the locker room, or would you feel a little bit 'less-than' compared to other men and want to fix it? That's how it is for a lot of women. It wouldn't necessarily be about attracting the opposite sex, because it would be in your pants where it's obviously not visible, but it would impact how you felt about your own body. If there was a quick and relatively affordable surgery to fix it and make it a normal size or a little bit bigger, wouldn't you at least consider it? I don't think men look at it from that angle and I think sometimes they should. Yes it can definitely relate to a woman's self esteem and body image, sometimes very deeply. We're taught by society that breasts = femininity, nurturing, sexuality, attractiveness etc and that all affects how we see ourselves to some degree. But if the situation were reversed like the scenario I just mentioned, I think a lot of men would drop the "low self esteem" card pretty fast. A lot of people say they don't mind if there's medical reasons behind it, but how many guys would actually stick around long enough to learn that, and not just write them off as a person because they figured out they had fake parts?
Not invalidating anyone's opinion, because it's okay to prefer real breasts over fake ones, or vice versa. Some don't like the look or feel, others do. Totally a personal choice, and I'm sure women have personal preferences relating to men's sexual parts too . I'm also not saying all girls with implants are great girlfriend material. I'm just saying it's stupid to write people off over it all together or assume things about their character, or group ALL women with implants into one category.
Not a fan of the fake ones, if a woman did it because she really had small breasts and wanted a very modest increase, then maybe, or a mastectomy reconstruction or whatever, but just because she wanted some big ol ta ta's.... naw, not so much, I'd rather have real ones that were smaller than big ol aftermarket bolt-ons.
That's part of why I wrote my goofy thread the way I did. Some guys are so used to objectifying our body parts, and summing us up...they totally forget or don't care about the whole package. The fact that our breasts are there for the babies we may have, (or not) for instance. The fact that our entire adolescent and adult life our breasts become some sort of identity factor used to measure our 'quality'.
Somehow it becomes about neediness and childishness, although in our culture it is considered 'normal' adult male behavior to do this...its one of the stupidest things about our culture I can name.
But, that's just me having a rant. Personally, if someone is so shallow and idiotic to pass me by because of my body type then please, keep moving. I certainly wouldn't want to attract someone BASED on that alone.
But, then, that IS how it works...I guess we can't have it all - wanting to attract a person for substantial reasons, but then they,(men) are hardwired to be visual...but have the capacity to think and reason beyond their initial attraction.
I'm rambling aren't I?
as a bonafide boob guy, I would definitely prefer the real ones to fake ones.
Though i admit that I don't know everything about reductions and lifts, which I don't think I'd mind too much since they are still real and not artificial, I'm mostly talking about the women who want to make there boobs larger by adding silicone or whatever it is to there boobs to go from like a B to D or larger. Like when I touch them, are they going to feel real, or obviously fake, since I have grabbed a handful of silicone before lol. Not talking about breast implants though.
The two that I felt looked pretty good, but they didn't feel real at all.
That's part of why I wrote my goofy thread the way I did. Some guys are so used to objectifying our body parts, and summing us up...they totally forget or don't care about the whole package. The fact that our breasts are there for the babies we may have, (or not) for instance. The fact that our entire adolescent and adult life our breasts become some sort of identity factor used to measure our 'quality'.
Somehow it becomes about neediness and childishness, although in our culture it is considered 'normal' adult male behavior to do this...its one of the stupidest things about our culture I can name.
But, that's just me having a rant. Personally, if someone is so shallow and idiotic to pass me by because of my body type then please, keep moving. I certainly wouldn't want to attract someone BASED on that alone.
But, then, that IS how it works...I guess we can't have it all - wanting to attract a person for substantial reasons, but then they,(men) are hardwired to be visual...but have the capacity to think and reason beyond their initial attraction.
I'm rambling aren't I?
yes you are rambling, but you are right for the most part. and that is why i concentrate on the entire package myself. for me to be attracted to a woman physically, she needs two things;
1: she needs to be OEM female. sorry i dont date transgenders.
2: she needs to be cute enough to turn me on, and that varies from woman to woman.
after that she needs to be intelligent, and able to carry on a decent conversation on a variety of subjects. we dont have to agree on everything, we just have to have good conversations.
as for breasts for me, i love them all, big small, medium sized, they are all good.
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. I'm also not saying all girls with implants are great girlfriend material. I'm just saying it's stupid to write people off over it all together or assume things about their character, or group ALL women with implants into one category.
