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Old 08-20-2014, 05:28 AM
 
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GURL, DON'T DO IT! You seem like you're uncomfortable that he knows all this info about you (creepers gonna creep) and your husband isn't down with you meeting him. I understand wanting to stay friendly with your ex (actually not really, as most of my exes think I am Satan with tetas) but is that desire worth causing conflict in your marriage?
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Old 08-20-2014, 05:40 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I guess my ex wanting more than the friendship, he sent me message again saying I cant even have a coffe and I'm such a girl!
Why else would he have messaged you in the first place? to be your friend? Lmao
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Old 08-20-2014, 06:12 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I guess my ex wanting more than the friendship, he sent me message again saying I cant even have a coffe and I'm such a girl!
See? He's a jerk. Don't let him manipulate you like this.

Who cares what he says? HE IS YOUR EX.

Ignore. Block. Delete. Move on.
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Old 08-20-2014, 06:30 AM
 
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Almost 2 years ago. Thanks for all the thoughts! Guess its better to stay out of conflict.
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Old 08-20-2014, 08:14 AM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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Smh..
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Old 08-20-2014, 09:24 AM
 
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It is pretty easy, really:

You can have what is behind door number one...your husband, or you can have what is behind door number two...your ex boyfriend.

If you choose door number two, door number one will no longer be an option.

Your choice. Marriage with a certain known man. Or coffee with an unknown person from your previous life.

Do as your heart wishes...but it sounds to me like the ex is being a little (a LOT) creepy.
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Old 08-20-2014, 11:40 AM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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Good Lawd.
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Old 08-20-2014, 11:46 AM
 
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The ex is clearly trying to manipulate you. That means he has bad intentions and doesn't care if he hurts you.

Normally, I am very much in favor of being friends with ex's. But this guy is clearly a scuzz and trying to have a friendship with him would mean breaking an implied agreement you made with your hubby. Both of those things, I am not in favor of.

Tell him to go f himself and unfriend him again.
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Old 08-20-2014, 11:48 AM
 
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Do not do anything that makes you or your husband uncomfortable. Respect your husband's wishes and do not meet with the ex. Your husband's wishes are more important than you ex's.
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Old 08-20-2014, 11:53 AM
 
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LOL lovelyD LOL
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