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Old 09-06-2014, 10:19 AM
 
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Women's ego can't handle rejection. The last woman who approached me called me gay because I wasn't into her. I laughed at her and told her "Now you know how men feel."
Sounds like your ego can't handle it either though.

I've had guys call me a lesbian because I rejected them. I've had men of color call me racist because I rejected them. I've had guys call me all kinds of names because I rejected them. It's not just women who do it, so let's stop generalizing, k? You know better.
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Old 09-06-2014, 10:21 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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I've had guys call me a lesbian because I rejected them. I've had men of color call me racist because I rejected them. I've had guys call me all kinds of names because I rejected them. It's not just women who do it, so let's stop generalizing, k? You know better.
Those guys are charming. You think, well, if I'm such an ugly cow, why did you want to talk to me in the first place?
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Old 09-06-2014, 10:22 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Sounds like your ego can't handle it either though.

I've had guys call me a lesbian because I rejected them. I've had men of color call me racist because I rejected them. I've had guys call me all kinds of names because I rejected them. It's not just women who do it, so let's stop generalizing, k? You know better.
I'll do and say what I want. K? Apparently, only the woman's feeling matters. If a man stops talking to a woman after getting rejected he's a butthurt child. Yet women get consoled. Double standards everywhere. If I don't want to speak to her after getting rejected, that's my right.
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Old 09-06-2014, 10:23 AM
 
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If she rejected me once, that's it. Feigning interest an hour later is game playing and immature. To answer your question, Yes, I'll snub her.
So you will snub a potential lay or potential relationship because your game wasn't tight enough to catch her interest right out the gate.

smh
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Old 09-06-2014, 10:23 AM
 
Location: Denver and Boston
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Yes it is normal and I would say healthy to loose interest in a woman after she says no to you.
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Old 09-06-2014, 10:24 AM
 
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Sounds like your ego can't handle it either though.

I've had guys call me a lesbian because I rejected them. I've had men of color call me racist because I rejected them. I've had guys call me all kinds of names because I rejected them. It's not just women who do it, so let's stop generalizing, k? You know better.
You stop with the men do it to nonsense. The world is not 50/5c0. There are things each sex does differently, benefits differently, etc.
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Old 09-06-2014, 10:24 AM
 
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Those guys are charming. You think, well, if I'm such an ugly cow, why did you want to talk to me in the first place?
I know, right? Lol.

In college, this group of guys drove by us and started asking us if we wanted to party. We said "no thanks" and they started calling us fatasses. I certainly wasn't fat at 120 lbs and 5'5", but my friend barely weighed 90 lbs soaking wet!

But you know, it's only women whose egos can't handle rejection. Lol.
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Old 09-06-2014, 10:26 AM
 
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You stop with the men do it to nonsense. The world is not 50/5c0. There are things each sex does differently, benefits differently, etc.
Yeah don't tell me what to do. My post is completely correct.
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Old 09-06-2014, 10:28 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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So you will snub a potential lay or potential relationship because your game wasn't tight enough to catch her interest right out the gate.

smh
Sure will. That's normal. I don't play teenage games with women.
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Old 09-06-2014, 10:28 AM
 
Location: in here, out there
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I'm pretty sure you're supposed to keep trying.
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