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Ugh. I've posted about this guy before but he continues to baffle me. I dated him for about a month before i moved. The last week I was there he kinda fell off the face of the earth. A couple weeks later, when I was in my new city about 1.5 hours away he started contacting me a few times a week over a few months now to catch up. The thing is, whenever I initiate contact with him, he replies with short answers and doesn't attempt to carry on the conversation. When he contacts me first he has plenty to say
Anyway I visit his city often. I have not seen him even though he often asks me to. This weekend I let him know I was there and we made plans to meet up because we were both going to be out on the town. I never heard from him! Around 3 am he texts me and apologized and said he just got in and his phone died and he was really sorry and if I was free the next day. I didn't answer. He sent me another text today with another apology and I have yet to respond.
I'm really confused by his behavior because I really do like this guy. Should I just be upfront and ask him how he feels about me or would this make me look desperate/ insecure? I still don't know if he is interested in pursuing a relationship or just some type of hookup situation. We have never slept together and he hasn't pressured me, i'm just not getting what he wants from me!
I am not sure what is so confusing to you.
He texts you on occasion and at 3am and you wonder if he really likes you?
One's phone battery can and in fact does die however, I have yet to know a phone batter that takes 2 weeks or several hours to charge.
I would wonder why he thinks it is okay to text you at 3:00 am though, I would have been quite unhappy about that in itself.
Well we were both out on the town. Clubs don't close until 3:00 am. He knows I'm usually out later than that because sometimes my friends and I will go grab a bite to eat or something. He asked if I was still out...I think he went home to charge his phone and was gonna meet up with us.
Ok obviously the only people giving you advice here are female. Send a text. It's free, and you might actually get a response you like. If not oh well! Take a quick shot. This is legit like a five second, no risk thing.
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