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Old 10-08-2014, 01:28 PM
 
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I don't think we have to worry about this guy rushing into anything.
sure, you say that now, but remember he is getting pressure from his "buddies" to have sex with this girl. and its possible that she might be thinking along the same lines, and getting similar pressure as well. add to the mix the fact that these two have eyes for each other, and this is when people make rash decisions.
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Old 10-08-2014, 01:45 PM
 
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sure, you say that now, but remember he is getting pressure from his "buddies" to have sex with this girl. and its possible that she might be thinking along the same lines, and getting similar pressure as well. add to the mix the fact that these two have eyes for each other, and this is when people make rash decisions.
No, JoeCollege is right. OP has a history of misreading people/situations and either failing to act, or acting inappropriately.
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Old 10-08-2014, 04:53 PM
 
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No, JoeCollege is right. OP has a history of misreading people/situations and either failing to act, or acting inappropriately.
it is better to fail to act than to act inappropriately.
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Old 10-08-2014, 05:19 PM
 
Location: Southeast Arizona
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it is better to fail to act than to act inappropriately.
I made a few bad calls. The Road to Hell is Paved With Good Intentions.

But don't even try to think I'd rush anything like sex. I have a hard time with trying to get a first kiss.
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Old 10-09-2014, 06:49 PM
 
Location: Southeast Arizona
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I wouldn't force anything on her.
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Old 10-09-2014, 10:36 PM
 
Location: Naptowne, Alaska
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Just relax and go with the flow. No need to rush into anything man. Let nature take it's course and just go have a good time and enjoy her company.
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Old 10-10-2014, 12:58 AM
 
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You shouldn't use people's names unless you are talking about politicians, imo.
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Old 10-10-2014, 01:59 AM
 
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Courage is the foundation of all happiness.
good point

Just go with the flow and enjoy it dude. Stop worrying on what will happen, treasure every seconds with her.
Planning is good, but don't expect everything will go according to what you set wish you luck men
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Old 11-11-2014, 09:25 PM
 
Location: Southeast Arizona
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It looks good so far, Angela will be coming back in a month or two. She's been asking me alot of religious questions lately.

Shayla though, back in July I asked her why she would ever ask me sexual questions, she dodged and said "I don't want to talk about that. Love ya."

She unblocked me on FB 2 months ago, I tried talking to her, nothing. She reblocked me.

I had a friend talk to her. She says she only wants to be friends, and that I'm such a nice guy and that I don't "get it" and that the only way I'll learn is the hard way, I tried texting for the last several months. She hasn't said a word.

I'm dismayed about her ****ty attitude, but not so much that because I have attention from 2 other girls, which also is a bit of a surprise. But just a year ago she asked me to come visit her, I told her and told her I would come visit. It was all originally going to be part of the trip, fly to MS then fly out to Idaho, I had the two weeks off and the money. I saved up an extra $1500 just to go visit her, and she just...she told me that she didn't think I was that serious. It was insulting. She broke it to me that she met another dude 8 weeks before I left.

Now, she won't even talk to me. Some friend.
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Old 11-11-2014, 09:30 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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It looks good so far, Angela will be coming back in a month or two. She's been asking me alot of religious questions lately.

Shayla though, back in July I asked her why she would ever ask me sexual questions, she dodged and said "I don't want to talk about that. Love ya."

She unblocked me on FB 2 months ago, I tried talking to her, nothing. She reblocked me.

I had a friend talk to her. She says she only wants to be friends, and that I'm such a nice guy and that I don't "get it" and that the only way I'll learn is the hard way, I tried texting for the last several months. She hasn't said a word.

I'm dismayed about her ****ty attitude, but not so much that because I have attention from 2 other girls, which also is a bit of a surprise. But just a year ago she asked me to come visit her, I told her and told her I would come visit. It was all originally going to be part of the trip, fly to MS then fly out to Idaho, I had the two weeks off and the money. I saved up an extra $1500 just to go visit her, and she just...she told me that she didn't think I was that serious. It was insulting. She broke it to me that she met another dude 8 weeks before I left.

Now, she won't even talk to me. Some friend.
You told us back then that you and she were just friends, and that it wasn't serious, but that you'd like to see her. I vaguely recall there was another girl there in AZ you were interested in at the time.
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