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Like I said - take a lead. Suggest a fun activity. Nothing wrong with that.
Sit and talk beats being in a movie or in a noisy bar, if you really want to learn to know each other. Except you want to have sex, NOW, and he is not interested in that - yet.
Guys should take the lead, at least for the first few dates. Also I was waiting to see if he can come up with sth other than dinner. It's also a time to show if he's a fun person. Dull dull dull. So disappointed
Why? Where is this written?
Yes, you're too picky -- or at least, unreasonable. You want to do something other than what he suggests, but you won't suggest anything yourself because of some stupid unwritten "rule" you have in your head. See how much dating success you have with this outlook.
It's not awkward around him. But since we dnot know each other much, we need to do something together to create topics. Every time just sit, eat, and talk. How boring is that.
It sounds like he's not the guy for you. If the things he talks about aren't interesting to you, and there's no chemistry after 3 or 4 dates, why keep dating him? You don't have to say "yes" when he invites you on a date.
Guys should take the lead, at least for the first few dates. Also I was waiting to see if he can come up with sth other than dinner. It's also a time to show if he's a fun person. Dull dull dull. So disappointed
Maybe you are boring on the dates so he doesn't think he can bare with your lack of enthusiasm if he tries to do something exciting.
Like I said - take a lead. Suggest a fun activity. Nothing wrong with that.
Sit and talk beats being in a movie or in a noisy bar, if you really want to learn to know each other. Except you want to have sex, NOW, and he is not interested in that - yet.
^This. Good advice. So much pressure on a man to plan things when he doesn't know what the woman likes. If you really liked him, you'd be happy just being around him no matter what you do.
The two of you could sit down together and come up with ideas regarding date activities.
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