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If I may, I assume, some men feel entitled, and when things don't go their way with women, they get feed up.
Do you?
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Originally Posted by Auraliea
Seeing things like that really just makes shake my head.
Afraid of women/men for what? I really just hope it's all exaggeration. They just give them way more than they really have, if they have any at all. I can understand not wanting to deal with pain, but going so far as to say you are afraid of an entire gender because of one or more experiences? C'mon now.
From another man on a thread, he stated he is afraid of being hurt and women are frightning? Really?
I get men and women hate rejection but afraid of them?
Yep. I believe that is what I see on the dating sites. I obviously don't know how women are behaving on those sites, but the men will look and look and look, but will not respond to any combination of winks, likes, favs, chats or emails.
The only explanation is that they are afraid of the whole process:
1. Making contact via any form of messaging for fear of being rejected
2. Getting to know a woman - and * gulp * start to LIKE her, then getting rejected
3. Asking her out with the possibility of being rejected
4. Starting a relationship that may or may not continue
So, they convince themselves that being alone is better.
The thing is, they don't think that (some of us) women are thinking/feeling the same things.
From another man on a thread, he stated he is afraid of being hurt and women are frightning? Really?
I get men and women hate rejection but afraid of them?
Well rejection is just difficult for some. It happens, and everyone goes through it. But for some, it's upsetting, and embarrassing.
So, some people are just more shame-faced. A rejection just opens a can of worms in self-doubt.
Men and women go through this. It's mainly rejection they are afraid of. Some go into self-hating and doubt. Others become bitter and assume everyone else has the problem, and in comes they gender-hating. because it alleviates their doubts when they can pin in on the other party. "It's not me, it's them."
Not afraid but single women avoid me like the plague so that I don't get the wrong idea and think they like me..
I try not to be overly flirtatious or friendly it just ends badly..
Lol.....yeah I know.
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Originally Posted by VanillaChocolate
Well rejection is just difficult for some. It happens, and everyone goes through it. But for some, it's upsetting, and embarrassing.
So, some people are just more shame-faced. A rejection just opens a can of worms in self-doubt.
Men and women go through this. It's mainly rejection they are afraid of. Some go into self-hating and doubt. Others become bitter and assume everyone else has the problem, and in comes they gender-hating.
42 million divorces since 1975 mostly filed by women
Why is he afraid?
I get that Huck, but my friends aren't divorced.The guys went after what they wanted.So did my brothers.
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