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Dump him. Actions speak louder than words, and he's showing you that he doesn't care about you that much, if he can't be alone with you and always has his friends around.
Agreed, but problem is, this is happening now in real time. She is stuck hours from home and does not have her own vehicle. Plus the $300 hotel is on HER credit card.
Look, he's clearly clueless at best and a totally insensitive selfish clod at worst.
Still, the silent treatment of "letting him know" you are upset won't fly.
You HAVE to have a conversation with him.
Use this time right now to make a short list of bullet points starting with the most upsetting "fact".
When he wakes up you calmly tell him you need to speak privately with him.
Tell him you will give him a chance to explain his point of view after he has heard how upset you are and understands why.
I guess.. I'm just upset that Ive been looking forward to this trip for months and in a matter of minutes it all went down the drain.. I feel like I won't even have a good time at the game because it's bugging me so much .. My guess is he thought well he drove us here so he can stay with us.. I'm more upset he didn't tell me
If it's only 7 months in and he is this thoughtless of others other than himself and his wants
Get ready for many more instances of the same behavioir in different circumstances.
If you can't trust him with a hotel room imagine him with a child.
The guy sounds like a total loser to me, and extremely inconsiderate. I'd never think of doing something like this. I'm sure you can do better. Agree with most here, dump him.
Dump him. Actions speak louder than words, and he's showing you that he doesn't care about you that much, if he can't be alone with you and always has his friends around.
We did have alone time during my last visit which was a month ago and I was there for about 4 days I think it was.. But not as much as I would've wanted ... We went out to some bars a few times which is fine with me.. But a few times I was being ignored
What, think they are going to gang up on you in the middle of the night?
Good God people are paranoid. I wouldn't care about sharing a room with another couple, girl, or guy with my lady. I'm communal though.
It's just awkward to me that Im sleeping in the same room as a guy I don't know.. I'm in my pjs hair messy no make up with some dude I don't know that's why.. What good is a hotel room if u are not comfortable in it?
If it's only 7 months in and he is this thoughtless of others other than himself and his wants
Get ready for many more instances of the same behavioir in different circumstances.
If you can't trust him with a hotel room imagine him with a child.
He has a kid who's 6 from a previous relationship actually
Sure, this sucks, but I don't think it's the end of the world, geeze. Some people are making it out to be like you two are on some romantic getaway and he brought his buddy lol.
I wouldn't do that personally, because it would obviously get in the way of the non-stop pound town from barely getting to see my long distance gf, but people are different.
I don't know if this is quite "break up" material kind of thing haha. I think it's a bit weird he didn't pitch in on the room, unless he paid for other things that evened out, or if you just make a lot more and are generous which is nice and all but still.
It kind of is a romantic getaway, for her, because they are in an LTR.
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