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Old 11-01-2014, 05:59 AM
 
Location: Lone Star State to Peach State
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Done that before...��
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Old 11-01-2014, 06:10 AM
 
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Cancel it. No big deal. Or she already responded.
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Old 11-01-2014, 06:39 AM
 
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Sometimes I hate technology. I have a "friend" that is putting me through the ringer, in the sense that I've realized how inequitable the friendship has become. I switched his name in my phone to "Don't reply so Fast". Well, then I had to email him a receipt (which I did from my desktop)… and when my phone downloaded the new "sent" emails, there was the email to him, addressed to "Don't Reply so Fast". I had a fricking heart attack!! But turns out if you send from your desktop, it doesn't use your phone nicknames, so I'm safe. That was a sucky couple of minutes until I figured it out though.

Oh, and haha. Have you seen that stupid show "Selfie"? The guy is new to Facebook, is stalking an ex and accidentally tags himself in a photo of her nursing her newborn.
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Old 11-01-2014, 08:57 AM
 
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This is how people end up cheating and resort to "it just Happened"

If you're seeing someone stop checking the market out....yeesh.
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Old 11-01-2014, 08:58 AM
 
Location: Middle America
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By the way, do people still use face book??
Seriously?
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Old 11-01-2014, 04:35 PM
 
Location: The last fluffy cloud on the horizon
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I was just bored for the most part... There I was doing a search to see if I could find the cute front desk girl at the gym I go to on Facebook. Well, I did and accidentally sent her a request. I was going to cancel it immediately but I'm sure it sends an email out..

I'm seeing someone too.. Just was thinking about her.
Oh well, hopefully I don't look too creepy. Don't need an awkward time at my favorite gym. Haha

Anyone ever get busted doing dumb stuff like that? It's awful.
Not sure why you felt the need to find the "cute front desk girl" when you already have a girlfriend. The endgame was what exactly? Are you friends with her IRL? Have you even had a deep conversation with her?

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This is how people end up cheating and resort to "it just Happened"

If you're seeing someone stop checking the market out....yeesh.
Rego, I agree with you 100%. It's so nauseating when people are in relationships and start seeking out other people (supposedly passively). The next thing we hear, opportunity presents itself and they're cheating. They cry, "I never meant for any of this to happen!" So why were you searching?

For once, be honest with yourself. If you're bored with your current relationship and unfulfilled, cut your girlfriend loose. Learn to stop wasting people's time.
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Old 11-01-2014, 04:35 PM
 
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Accidentally friending someone while Facebook stalking is like my worst nightmare!
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Old 11-01-2014, 05:00 PM
 
Location: Vail, CO
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Not sure why you felt the need to find the "cute front desk girl" when you already have a girlfriend. The endgame was what exactly? Are you friends with her IRL? Have you even had a deep conversation with her?



Rego, I agree with you 100%. It's so nauseating when people are in relationships and start seeking out other people (supposedly passively). The next thing we hear, opportunity presents itself and they're cheating. They cry, "I never meant for any of this to happen!" So why were you searching?

For once, be honest with yourself. If you're bored with your current relationship and unfulfilled, cut your girlfriend loose. Learn to stop wasting people's time.
Lol

Not everyone is out to stab people in the back. I'm perfectly happy.

I was looking up tons of old friends and other people at the gym including that ripped guy who deadlifts like 800 lbs. I've talked to her plenty as I go to the gym everyday. It's not like a bored day at home snooping around FB is cheating. Jesus, you people need to relax!

She accepted it and nothing seemed weird at the gym today Just wanted to hear stories from other people. Glad this didn't happen when I was snooping my current girls FB before we really started dating seriously. I just never really thought about hitting that on accident before.
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Old 11-01-2014, 05:12 PM
 
Location: The last fluffy cloud on the horizon
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Lol

Not everyone is out to stab people in the back. I'm perfectly happy.

I was looking up tons of old friends and other people at the gym including that ripped guy who deadlifts like 800 lbs. I've talked to her plenty as I go to the gym everyday. It's not like a bored day at home snooping around FB is cheating. Jesus, you people need to relax!

She accepted it and nothing seemed weird at the gym today Just wanted to hear stories from other people. Glad this didn't happen when I was snooping my current girls FB before we really started dating seriously. I just never really thought about hitting that on accident before.
Hey, no harm no foul.

The "grass is greener" syndrome plagues many relationships today. One of the worst things a person can do to a girlfriend/boyfriend is to make them feel like they're not enough.

Regardless, I am confident that you won't screw up what's taken you a significant time to achieve.
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Old 11-01-2014, 09:26 PM
 
Location: Denver and Boston
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Darn, I was hoping you would go the Cartman route and friend request the entire gym staff. WWCD?
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