Is she into me even though we don't have sex? (dating, girl)
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So I have hung out with this girl 8 maybe 9 times since I met her... We haven't known each other for more than a month or so.
Some times its out on a date other times it is just hanging out at one of our houses.
But we haven't had sex or done anything beyond dry humping, kissing and touching here and there.
I do like her a lot actually, and each time we hang out I feel closer to her. But In the back of my mind I thinking how have we not had sex yet? I am not used to this at all. Usually when dating sex happens way sooner than 9 times of hanging out.
So is this girl into me? or I guess my question is does she like me as much as I like her?
Is it okay to like each other but not have sex? She says she likes me a lot and enjoys hanging out a lot.
Well since she allows you to hump her leg, I'd imagine she likes you. If you have the experience you should already know that everyone is different. The longer you wait, the greater the anticipation, so when it happens, it will be well worth the wait.
She's not into you, or you'd be into her, if you know whut ah mean.
yeah maybe she is just hanging out with me and doesn't like me enough to want to have sex? but then wouldn't she want to stop hanging out and doing all the other stuff?
yeah maybe she is just hanging out with me and doesn't like me enough to want to have sex? but then wouldn't she want to stop hanging out and doing all the other stuff?
Apparently you are smarter than the average old fart, so you win this round. Yes you're right--she most likely would not be hanging out with you if she didn't like you and she's probably more serious than the girl who jumps right into bed on the third date. She wants to make sure you are too. What's the hurry? Enjoy the anticipation.
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Originally Posted by goofball83
So I have hung out with this girl 8 maybe 9 times since I met her... We haven't known each other for more than a month or so.
Some times its out on a date other times it is just hanging out at one of our houses.
But we haven't had sex or done anything beyond dry humping, kissing and touching here and there.
I do like her a lot actually, and each time we hang out I feel closer to her. But In the back of my mind I thinking how have we not had sex yet? I am not used to this at all. Usually when dating sex happens way sooner than 9 times of hanging out.
So is this girl into me? or I guess my question is does she like me as much as I like her?
Is it okay to like each other but not have sex? She says she likes me a lot and enjoys hanging out a lot.
After a month is not a big deal. Now after three months if you ain't been "inside" her and she doesn't have obvious hangup about sex that can be attributed to something traumatic like religious beliefs, safe to say she ain't "into" you.
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