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Originally Posted by mattywo85
So I rarely seek advice on here for relationship issues but I wanted to get some opinions. My ex g/f who I dated ten years ago recently contacted me out of the blue. I honestly am very happy to hear from her and I feel that she is the one that I could end up with, it's just a weird gut feeling I have. However she lives in another state and has children from another relationship. Neither issue is really a big deal IMO. However I wonder if she contacted me to re-kindle things. She is reluctant to express her feelings and I feel like I am putting in more effort then her with conversation and dropping hints. I am not sure if she is just busy on her end or just doesn't have feelings to express. How do I go about this? Do I just flat out ask her or should I feel her out and see what happens? Is there any hints any ladies in here would drop that would indicate something?
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Only you can make this decision for your life and there is a reason why she is an ex girlfriend.
If she was that important and the one you could end up with you would have married her and moved with her 10 years ago.
The quickest way to find out what she really wants is to ask her, if it scares her away then she really doesn't want to be with you she is just using you as the in between guy until she finds who she really wants.
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