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Old 12-15-2014, 02:33 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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If a woman told me I was bad in bed, it would destroy my self-esteem and bruise my ego. I'd probably do what this guy did to the OP. Embarrassing situation for the guy.
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Old 12-15-2014, 04:34 PM
 
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That's where you call him up and admit it was awkward and didn't go as plan. Maybe see if it's worth another shot.
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Old 12-15-2014, 05:17 PM
 
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aye, it happens... sex cant always be good

this is one of those times you dont add this to your tally

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Old 12-15-2014, 05:47 PM
 
Location: GA
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Sounds like the interaction was ruined by sex too soon. Perhaps that was what he was after and when it ended less than great he didn't want to give it another shot. Guys are not big on trying again. What about the sex was bad? Was either of you uncomfortable or perhaps not feeling uninhibited? Were either of you sloppy drunk?
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Old 12-16-2014, 03:37 AM
 
Location: Mumbai
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you too ignore him
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Old 12-16-2014, 11:16 AM
 
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Why would you care if the guy was awkward in bed, now you don't have to waste your time teaching him what you like...dodged a bullet, now move on.....
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Old 12-16-2014, 11:47 AM
 
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I was dating this guy since the end of September, the chemistry was great and we always had a really good time when we were together. He seemed really into me and was a total gentleman, taking me out on great dates and was really open about his past, his family and his life and seemed really interested in me as a person. He's invited me to his house for dinner with his brother and to a gig with some of his friends as well.

Last Wednesday we went on a date which ended in sex. The sex was quite awkward and was probably some of the worst sex I've ever had in my life and afterwards I was just like 'Don't worry, its usually awkward the first time with a new person'. To which he was sarcastically like 'Thanks'. I was talking about both of us being awkward, though! He is a very very sensitive person. He seemed fine the next morning though and was talking about the next time and me inviting him over to mine etc.

After I left his place on Thursday morning he texted me about an hour later and then followed up again when I didn't reply. We were texting back and forth until Saturday when he just stopped replying and didn't get back to me for over 24 hours!! He's never been the biggest texter in the world but I can see him on WhatsApp and he's just been ignoring me. I'm now freaking out that he has lost interest because the sex was bad or that he's second guessing whether he likes me or not. Please help.
You basically told him he sncked in bed, and you wonder why he doesn't want to go out with you again?
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Old 12-16-2014, 03:14 PM
 
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This entire post is incredibly perplexing. 3-4 mos is fast???? In what world?
In,

Situationship-Unofficially-A-Couple-(But-Not Really)-Friends-With-Benefits-Potential-Wifey-What-Are-We?-LAND.
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Old 12-16-2014, 04:17 PM
 
Location: Northern Wisconsin
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I think she disappeared.
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Old 12-16-2014, 09:54 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I think she disappeared.
She's doing a redo.
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