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I KNOW that I acted immaturely, but does that give HIM any right to go off and get drunk and be alone at another woman's house? Did my actions deserve that?
I KNOW that I acted immaturely, but does that give HIM any right to go off and get drunk and be alone at another woman's house? Did my actions deserve that?
Yes but I did not actually do anything wrong. HE did.
I have never cheated on him, I have never gone alone with another guy or been to another guy's house alone while with him or put myself in a bad situation like that. HE DID do that.
Will someone please have sympathy and answer with insight because this is real and it's hurtful. We were going to be life-partners and now he cheated due to getting drunk because of guessing that I was wronging him. I don't want to get sick, but I want him in my life and I want to understand this situation.
Skimmed over the thread about the car seat, was he cheating? Could be he simply used the opportunity, a bonified cheater as your future life partner.
Yes but I did not actually do anything wrong. HE did.
I have never cheated on him, I have never gone alone with another guy or been to another guy's house alone while with him or put myself in a bad situation like that. HE DID do that.
You are both in the wrong. Additionally, the fact that you're hell bent on blaming him completely without taking responsibility for your own actions is very telling of your nature.
With your attitude don't expect a lot of sympathy.
Will someone please have sympathy and answer with insight because this is real and it's hurtful. We were going to be life-partners and now he cheated due to getting drunk because of guessing that I was wronging him. I don't want to get sick, but I want him in my life and I want to understand this situation.
Sympathy for who regarding what? If this is the same guy from the summer and you are still with him obviously things are not that bad or you would already be gone.
Some "lessons" never work out and from what I read you both are much too immature to even think about being in a serious relationship let alone live together.
Also, since you live together why aren't you going with him to spend time at his family's home?
You both need to accept responsibility in this situation and move on to someone you trust because you do not appear to trust each other.
Yes but I did not actually do anything wrong. HE did.
I have never cheated on him, I have never gone alone with another guy or been to another guy's house alone while with him or put myself in a bad situation like that. HE DID do that.
What you don't realize is you DID do something wrong.
The way you acted was not the right way to be acting regardless of how he made you feel.
This doesn't excuse his behavioir, but it certainly doesn't excuse your own either.
Perosnal responcibilty is something we all need to learn if we are ever to stop blaming others for our own misfortunes.
Yes but I did not actually do anything wrong. HE did.
I have never cheated on him, I have never gone alone with another guy or been to another guy's house alone while with him or put myself in a bad situation like that. HE DID do that.
"Yes but, yes but, yes but ..."
Every post shows that you constantly do things wrong. You're keeping score, you're blaming, you're pouting, you're being passive aggressive.
You don't know how to be in a healthy relationship.
I KNOW that I acted immaturely, but does that give HIM any right to go off and get drunk and be alone at another woman's house? Did my actions deserve that?
What did you tell him? "You aren't married and he shouldn't have to check in with you and when he wants to leave he should just be able to leave".
How is that working out for you?
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