What would you do...???

[cremebrulee]

Originally Posted by Roaddog

I sure wouldn't tell his wife being that you really don't know what his intensions are.
We can guess he was after sex but we don't know, I've met people who are just overly friendly and make you wonder whats up.
If you really want to know his intensions then ask him in a e-mail and if you feel uncomfortable just stay away from him.

I gotta go along with Roaddog...I used to be one of those overly friendly people....not good, as some men, take that the wrong way, even though you don't touch or do anything else but be curious about and love people and their stories....some men think, if your talking to them or going to lunch or dinner with them, you want them....when I started working construction, I was told by a man, "Don't kid around with jokes that have sexual connotations in them, b/c some men even though your joking, take that as a come on?"

Me, I would just stay away and be cautious not afraid, but cautious with strangers....until you know them better, and be careful who give you a drink, watch anyone who is making your drink at all times....when, I was a very young girl, I had a young man, who I was dating bring me a drink....it had acid in it....(the drug)

[Lindsey_Mcfarren]

I would just get FAR AWAY from the entire situation. I would mention to my friend who sort of introduced you what happened but other then that I wouldn't do anything.

[Tzaphkiel]

Originally Posted by cremebrulee

and by the way, have you ever gone out on a date and had a man twice your size push himself on you? To the point where he wouldn't stop and you had to kick him to get away?

the red flag for me in the post is when she orders a non-alcoholic drink and he says "no you really want this" because that's the sort of person who also when a woman says no to sex, or tries to, says, "you really want this." you make a good point creme

[trm]

THANKS EVERYONE FOR YOUR ADVICE...TRULY APPRECAITED!!!!! I will not be in contact with this guy and ended up telling my mom...I could not hold it in....Thanks again! Take care!!!!

[Laura707]

You were suppose to be awe struck and give in. I would avoid him now that you know his what his intensions are.

[Rance]

I think it's a dang good thing you did not go into the hotel with him. After having that drink he could have raped you and then said you came on to him. Consider yourself lucky young lady.