It's been 8 days, will I ever hear from him again? (guys, love)
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I texted him last week and he seemed really friendly. I didn't want to push it and see if he slowly comes back.. That's the best option right now? I'm also going on other dates because I'm not going to wait around. I know he sees I'm active on Match and so is he. That is where we met..The sad thing is we had so much in common. His mother and sister have the same birthday and she was born on her 30th. My mom and me have the same birthday and I was born on her 30th. We like the exact same things..I'm afraid I won't ever meet anyone like that again..so depressed..He was insecure too..He would never talk on the phone..like ever..We only talked twice in 6 months and that's because I told him "call me!" i think his shyness made me insecure..He also said we were exclusive without even asking me..like it was just assumed...Women can't go on assumptions be straightforward..but glad he did say that....I guess time will tell, but I don't see him coming back either depressing...he was a good guy didn't make a move for a whole month..that never happens...blah
Sunnysky, things like you and his sister both being exactly 30 years younger than your mothers is just a detail. It's an interesting coincidence; it does not indicate fate has destined the two of you should be together.
Why are you so invested in him and this fairly new relationship? This is typically a sign of low self-esteem. He can't fix that for you; only you can.
I hate having no closure..but i'm too prideful to text..if he obviously doesn't care I've got to act that I don't either..even though I do..life sucks sometimes
You said he always comes to visit you.
Did you ever visited him in his town? My guts are telling me that he is taken already - married or seeing someone, and you are just a little thrill in another town.
Take a drive and visit him, look around and you might find out what's going on.
Ummmm, when a male is attracted to a female, he calls, when he doesn't call, don't chase him. Unless you are interested in further destroying your self esteem issues.
You said he always comes to visit you.
Did you ever visited him in his town? My guts are telling me that he is taken already - married or seeing someone, and you are just a little thrill in another town.
Take a drive and visit him, look around and you might find out what's going on.
Somehow, I also got the feeling that he may be married.......google him and see what you can find out about his life.......or do a personal check on him ...........
I hate having no closure..but i'm too prideful to text..if he obviously doesn't care I've got to act that I don't either..even though I do..life sucks sometimes
I just saw your picture and I'd ask you out in a heartbeat. So would any other guy. It's his loss.
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depressing...he was a good guy didn't make a move for a whole month..that never happens...blah
