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Old 02-17-2015, 06:25 PM
 
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You said he always comes to visit you.
Did you ever visited him in his town? My guts are telling me that he is taken already - married or seeing someone, and you are just a little thrill in another town.
Take a drive and visit him, look around and you might find out what's going on.
I was thinking the same thing. That and the fact that he would never talk to her on the phone.

 
Old 02-17-2015, 06:44 PM
 
Location: Florida
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He said he didn't like talking on the phone..whenever id go to visit I had to go his parents house..so pretty sure he's not married..I also spent a day with his best friend so I don't think he'd bring me around like that if he was..but something feels weird..I'm pretty sure he's living with his parents and is too embarrassed to admit for whatever reason..he makes more then me..it's odc thats why I never went over there...now I'm paranoid oh well doesn't even matter he's dropped off the face of the planet..will never have closure on this
 
Old 02-17-2015, 06:46 PM
 
Location: Florida
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He was enamored for about 3 months then he stopped caring isn't that how it always works?!
 
Old 02-17-2015, 06:46 PM
 
Location: California side of the Sierras
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He was enamored for about 3 months then he stopped caring isn't that how it always works?!
No, not always.
 
Old 02-17-2015, 06:54 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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He said he didn't like talking on the phone..whenever id go to visit I had to go his parents house..so pretty sure he's not married..I also spent a day with his best friend so I don't think he'd bring me around like that if he was..but something feels weird..I'm pretty sure he's living with his parents and is too embarrassed to admit for whatever reason..he makes more then me..it's odc thats why I never went over there...now I'm paranoid oh well doesn't even matter he's dropped off the face of the planet..will never have closure on this
I'm sorry you're hurting. Sadly, this guy isn't into you and sooner or later he'll regret letting you go.
 
Old 02-17-2015, 07:08 PM
 
Location: U.S. (East Coast)
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He was enamored for about 3 months then he stopped caring isn't that how it always works?!
NO! It isn't how it works. Anyone with an ounce of logic can see through this and realize you have issues... if I were a guy (and him) I would've been long gone too. Too much headache. Too many whiny "you don't love me" sniffs going on here. You didn't have to say anything; your actions spoke for you and he heard it loud and clear.

Good for him.

Look into getting some therapy and fixing you before you bother anybody else with your sobby emotional dysfunction.
 
Old 02-17-2015, 07:55 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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I couldn't be in a relationship where anything else I did proved I didn't love them. You are very drama prone, so until you fix that, guys are probably going to leave.
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Old 02-18-2015, 07:51 AM
 
Location: Florida
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I know its over..need to accept it..
 
Old 02-18-2015, 08:36 AM
 
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You have to love yourself before anyone can love you. You need to start a relationship with YOU.
 
Old 02-18-2015, 11:02 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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How I would love someone to say "He was hot. I seduced him and the sex was great. It was worth it even if I never see him again". Where are you?
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