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I always see everyone on this forum say when it comes to cheating "If you're gonna cheat, break up with the person and go for the other plain and simple".
So my question is, hypothetically you have a guy who's been married to a woman for 5 years but like a month after the 5th year mark he feels feelings for her friend or someone else. If he never cheated and were to just divorce her and literally right after he filed it or when it's officiall he got with the new person in a relationship would that be bad?
Remember, he NEVER cheated. He did what most of you say he has to have "the balls" and "be a man with honor" so would the girl not feel hurt since he did it maturely?
the key point is he NEVER cheated, he never flirted either he just started to feel more attraction.
I always see everyone on this forum say when it comes to cheating "If you're gonna cheat, break up with the person and go for the other plain and simple".
So my question is, hypothetically you have a guy who's been married to a woman for 5 years but like a month after the 5th year mark he feels feelings for her friend or someone else. If he never cheated and were to just divorce her and literally right after he filed it or when it's officiall he got with the new person in a relationship would that be bad?
Remember, he NEVER cheated. He did what most of you say he has to have "the balls" and "be a man with honor" so would the girl not feel hurt since he did it maturely?
the key point is he NEVER cheated, he never flirted either he just started to feel more attraction.
My first question would be all of a sudden, he just seems to have feelings for someone else,other than his wife..and he is NOT cheating?
Ok..I`ll play, but why would the girl that he is leaving his 5 year marriage for, even want to be his rebound that soon after?
I mean gezzz..he needs to cool his bed off before just slipping the next one right in there.
I always see everyone on this forum say when it comes to cheating "If you're gonna cheat, break up with the person and go for the other plain and simple".
So my question is, hypothetically you have a guy who's been married to a woman for 5 years but like a month after the 5th year mark he feels feelings for her friend or someone else. If he never cheated and were to just divorce her and literally right after he filed it or when it's officiall he got with the new person in a relationship would that be bad?
Remember, he NEVER cheated. He did what most of you say he has to have "the balls" and "be a man with honor" so would the girl not feel hurt since he did it maturely?
the key point is he NEVER cheated, he never flirted either he just started to feel more attraction.
My question is this: the guy has these feelings for the friend, does the friend KNOW about this prior to him ending the relationship or is this just a one-sided attraction? If the friend and he both know and feel attraction and are waiting for the relationship to end, then this is cheating (emotional affair). If he just feels something for someone else so much so that he cant stay with his wife, but the friend has no clue about it then its not cheating.
I always see everyone on this forum say when it comes to cheating "If you're gonna cheat, break up with the person and go for the other plain and simple".
So my question is, hypothetically you have a guy who's been married to a woman for 5 years but like a month after the 5th year mark he feels feelings for her friend or someone else. If he never cheated and were to just divorce her and literally right after he filed it or when it's officiall he got with the new person in a relationship would that be bad?
Remember, he NEVER cheated. He did what most of you say he has to have "the balls" and "be a man with honor" so would the girl not feel hurt since he did it maturely?
the key point is he NEVER cheated, he never flirted either he just started to feel more attraction.
yeah most of it sounds about right but getting with their friend... that's pretty messed up.
also hypothetically speaking, that person wouldn't talk to the friend anymore would they?
My question is this: the guy has these feelings for the friend, does the friend KNOW about this prior to him ending the relationship or is this just a one-sided attraction? If the friend and he both know and feel attraction and are waiting for the relationship to end, then this is cheating (emotional affair). If he just feels something for someone else so much so that he cant stay with his wife, but the friend has no clue about it then its not cheating.
you just put another variable into the equation. this is starting to turn to chaos theory
My question is this: the guy has these feelings for the friend, does the friend KNOW about this prior to him ending the relationship or is this just a one-sided attraction? If the friend and he both know and feel attraction and are waiting for the relationship to end, then this is cheating (emotional affair). If he just feels something for someone else so much so that he cant stay with his wife, but the friend has no clue about it then its not cheating.
The last part is the exact meaning I meant sorry for notclarifying. He feels it so much he can't stay but neither the friend nor wife know
The last part is the exact meaning I meant sorry for notclarifying. He feels it so much he can't stay but neither the friend nor wife know
so he is going to leave his wife for a woman that a) is the wifes friend and b) has no clue about him?....this wouldnt end well, but its not cheating, its just retarded
so he is going to leave his wife for a woman that a) is the wifes friend and b) has no clue about him?....this wouldnt end well, but its not cheating, its just retarded
Lol Noo she knows who he is and they know eachother but she has no idea he is attracted towards her. And he wants to take the chance of splitting to date her
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... that's pretty messed up. 
wow
