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The amount of guys my friends and I have experience this with is about 18 men in a group of 5 women.
This is very strange to me. Is it possible something you gals are doing something wrong? That's an awful lot of men with ED to not start assuming you're the common denominator. Nothing personal. There are a lot of books on that subject
If he can't get it up, does he make any effort to please you in other ways? If so, is that not enough??
As someone who has ED due to diabetes, but can certainly please my women in other ways, I have to ask... if the guy is just not wanting to engage in any acts if he cannot perform, that seems selfish of him. But if you are making the situation uncomfortable because of this, maybe look within
He's not into oral which to me isn't a big deal because we caress and fondle and have intercourse and we are both satisfied... there has been a time when he's wanted to have sex and couldn't finish but he made sure I was satisfied, unfortunately for some reason I feel more satisfied when I pleasure the person I'm with it's more of a eye-opener , toe curling feeling...
This is very strange to me. Is it possible something you gals are doing something wrong? That's an awful lot of men with ED to not start assuming you're the common denominator. Nothing personal. There are a lot of books on that subject
LoL I don't know I think I'm sexy i wear dresses, fix my hair , wear perfume, very little makeup. (See my photos) believe me I'm willing to do whatever my man wants. I've only been with 3 men my whole life and my ex didn't have the issue yet he drank a max of 2 beers a week and the other guy I was with said he wouldn't drink much because he knew he didn't like the way liquor would affect his member and cause him to not get completely aroused. So I noticed with my current awesome guy that he has this issue. Now I know that the few friends I have they're very much man pleasers too , myself I'm struggling with being more with putting the moves on him , lol unless you call back rubs a move
Your friend seriously needs to take a trip to the doctor. Trouble breathing and tightness of the chest, coupled with ED, could be a serious problem. It could mean he's got a blockage that is keeping the blood flowing to his heart and his member.
I totally agree. I wouldn't mess around with the other symptoms. Something's medically wrong.
My ex began having problems in his early 30's and his PCP said that his prostate was enlarged, so he sent him to a Urologist. Back then was before Viagra came out. He did have to take antibiotics for it. It was funny because my ex kept watching the Pfizer website to see when the FDA approved it and he called his doc the day it came out and his doc didn't even know!
Oh yes, alcohol can definitely cause Mr. Ed to appear! I limit myself to one low abv% drink if I'm anticipating to see my FWB.
Stress is a big one for me too...I need to be in a fairly calm & relaxed state to be able to perform optimally.
Strangely enough being oversexed can cause it too. Just recently I was with my FWB three nights in a row...fairly long sessions too. We've had more free time than usual lately and tried for four nights in a row and it just wasn't happening for me, so we agreed to take a break for a bit to let me recover lol.
Okay so ED is it an issue that many have ran into? IMHO and a few of my friends believe ED is an issue when guys over 40+ experience when they drink to much? Honestly I'm inexperienced so it's something that is bothersome and makes me feel unattractive. Is there anything you can do to help a guy to workout this issue or is something that he just needs to realize that the more he drinks the more Mr. ED will visit. I know he's had other issues like tightness in his chest and trouble breathing because of the drinking I believe. Please share your insight on this situation. TIA
OP, when I saw the post of this thread, I almost howled with laughter. No, I don't want to comment on it, have only limited experiences with partners who suffered from this...Just wanted to say I enjoyed the creativity that went into composing that title.
Okay so ED is it an issue that many have ran into? IMHO and a few of my friends believe ED is an issue when guys over 40+ experience when they drink to much? Honestly I'm inexperienced so it's something that is bothersome and makes me feel unattractive. Is there anything you can do to help a guy to workout this issue or is something that he just needs to realize that the more he drinks the more Mr. ED will visit. I know he's had other issues like tightness in his chest and trouble breathing because of the drinking I believe. Please share your insight on this situation. TIA
2 thoughts on this.
1. In broad, general terms, psychology tends to play a larger role in these matters than physical ability. A man who lacks confidence won't be able to able to perform as well as one who has confidence to spare. That doesn't mean that physical problems CAN'T affect performance and alcohol is certainly a contributor (whiskey d*ck wouldn't be a saying if alcohol didn't affect us sometimes) but if guys are having performance issues AND drinking a lot, it may not be the latter causing the former but simply an underlying lack of confidence causing him to drink and *ahem* wilt.
*Note: I'm not diagnosing, just suggesting a possible cause beyond the booze.
2. Anyone who took sex ed in 6th grade (or whenever) knows it's all about bloodflow. Further, fewer people know that, the magic blue pill was actually developed as heart medication because it helps with....anyone? Yup! Bloodflow. Tightness in the chest and trouble breathing, especially in a guy in his 40's or later, makes me think heart trouble not too much to drink. What causes a heart attack? Lack of bloodflow. Your buddy should get himself checked out by a doctor soon if he's having these symptoms at all and VERY soon if it's on anything resembling a regular basis or if he's ever even thought it happened when he wasn't drinking.
I totally agree. I wouldn't mess around with the other symptoms. Something's medically wrong.
My ex began having problems in his early 30's and his PCP said that his prostate was enlarged, so he sent him to a Urologist. Back then was before Viagra came out. He did have to take antibiotics for it. It was funny because my ex kept watching the Pfizer website to see when the FDA approved it and he called his doc the day it came out and his doc didn't even know!
Sorry for not responding we were out and about... he actually went to the doctors because of the tightness in his chest and after many tests and blood work the doctors said anxiety. He works a minimum of 6 10hr days as a commercial electrician so high stress hard working job so if he wants to drink and I have to work harder than I guess I will just be happy I am with such an amazing man. I'm just glad it's not me that's causing it.
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