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Well I'm over 40 as most of my friends are too and we gals talk. One of my friends boyfriend has ED but we (the girls) noticed that the guys who tend to drink tend to struggle a bit... my situation is he's a commercial electrician and is building a powerhouse he works 12 hrs days so he drinks a few after work nit every day but he does drink and at times he takes a while to rise to the occasion....
Give the guy a break, he's working 12 hours of work that is challenging mentally AND physically (if you don't believe that, you have never done any electrical work!)
"Mister ED" is all about him being tired, and it has NOTHING to do with your own level of attractiveness, so please get over that one, last thing the guy needs to hear when he's having trouble "rising to the occasion".
Funny lol actually one of my guy friends takes them because he has a young girlfriend he want to impress and he says different pills make you feel different (upset stomach etc)
Is your friend in public? I find many men get nervous and can't get it up in groups. This can happen.
I'm sorry to say I have some experience with this. Each guy seems to have his own cause. One guy I suspect had trouble due to his overall health plus he was a little kinky and asked for some things I could not deliver. Another guy I think was gay and had suffered a great deal of anxiety while trying to get his wife pregnant. So sex made him very nervous. He actually tried to fake an orgasm. Another guy was taking Paxil for social anxiety disorder and later revealed to me he is an alcoholic.
The common denominator was anxiety...and there is very little I ever felt I could do about that. Men aren't inclined to let a woman in, no matter how caring and patient. I recently went out 5-6 times with a guy I really liked, but when I dropped a couple of hints that sex was definitely an option for me, he dropped me like a hot potato. I suspect he is an alcoholic, so I wasn't sorry to get dropped.
To answer the OPs question, it isn't just about the 4 beers. It is also about the longer term health implications of drinking alcohol. It isn't just what he drank tonight, but what he drank all week, the week before and the week before that......
He needs a complete check up and to FULLY discuss this with an MD. He probably won't want to!
Is your friend in public? I find many men get nervous and can't get it up in groups. This can happen.
No my friend he just wants to be able to perform like he did when he was in his 20's , he says he wants to make sure she doesn't have any questions about being with someone older... I don't know why he's not confident enough to know that she's in it for him not sex.
LoL I don't know I think I'm sexy i wear dresses, fix my hair , wear perfume, very little makeup. (See my photos) believe me I'm willing to do whatever my man wants. I've only been with 3 men my whole life and my ex didn't have the issue yet he drank a max of 2 beers a week and the other guy I was with said he wouldn't drink much because he knew he didn't like the way liquor would affect his member and cause him to not get completely aroused. So I noticed with my current awesome guy that he has this issue. Now I know that the few friends I have they're very much man pleasers too , myself I'm struggling with being more with putting the moves on him , lol unless you call back rubs a move
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Originally Posted by LostMyself73
Sorry for not responding we were out and about... he actually went to the doctors because of the tightness in his chest and after many tests and blood work the doctors said anxiety. He works a minimum of 6 10hr days as a commercial electrician so high stress hard working job so if he wants to drink and I have to work harder than I guess I will just be happy I am with such an amazing man. I'm just glad it's not me that's causing it.
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Originally Posted by M3 Mitch
Give the guy a break, he's working 12 hours of work that is challenging mentally AND physically (if you don't believe that, you have never done any electrical work!)
"Mister ED" is all about him being tired, and it has NOTHING to do with your own level of attractiveness, so please get over that one, last thing the guy needs to hear when he's having trouble "rising to the occasion".
I think you missed these messages I sent , I don't make it an issue . But I do question if it was normal I've never heard of whiskey dick...
I think you missed these messages I sent , I don't make it an issue . But I do question if it was normal I've never heard of whiskey dick...[/quote]
That's like a Rum softie.....
Thanks hawk good to know these terms And conditions now that I'm single I'll have to know these things lol
BTW do women get these symptoms ? I like rum
Yes, alcohol definitely has a deflating effect. Maybe you should ask, why he drinks as much as he does?
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good to know these terms And conditions now that I'm single I'll have to know these things lol 
