Are there more lonely hot women than most guys think there are? (dating, marriages)

[DavidRudisha]

Do you think there is a number of a hot women who men assume are saturated with male attention or already taken, but are in fact lonely and hoping for guys to talk to them?

[Ruth4Truth]

There are hot women who only get approached by sleazes, because the good guys are too shy, too intimidated, whatever. There are attractive women who rarely get approached, because yes, men tend to assume they're taken and that it's pointless to approach them.

Not to mention all the average women who are under people's radar altogether.

[wanderlust76]

Well usually those women only date wealthy men so what's the point in trying.

[abrandnewme18]

I highly doubt it.

[OzzyRules]

It seems that most women would prefer a rich guy, even one with questionable sexuality.

[Ace_TX]

Originally Posted by DavidRudisha

Do you think there is a number of a hot women who men assume are saturated with male attention or already taken, but are in fact lonely and hoping for guys to talk to them?

assume -> ass-u-me (old benny hill lesson)

no, the "hot" woman only has to deal with a small % of wussies that wont step to them... there will always be dudes with some balls that will step to said woman

the only women who are "lonely...hoping for guys to talk to them" are the ones that are stuck on stupid because they have been programmed that if a guy doesnt come to them and do all the work then they are not worthy

[In2itive_1]

Originally Posted by wanderlust76

Well usually those women only date wealthy men so what's the point in trying.

WHAT are you talking about?.. I have seen these sorts of remarks before.. lots of defeatist attitudes. You guys need to stop thinking that, because there are a lot of great, sexy women who do not live for money. Now, if you mean a Hefner, playboy bunny type, why would you want someone like that - who is exactly the type who wants a sugar daddy? Lots of talk about "HOTNESS" going on.. can you show examples? (OH, do you mean voluptuous, 23-year-olds with hair down to their rears, wearing a bikini, like in the Carls Jr. ads?)

I'm sorry, but if men would stop being "in love" with fantasy images, things would be a lot better for everyone. I blame those having created "girlie" magazines and imagery since, designed for males to "_________" to, having been programmed from puberty to think this is what it is all about. Then, the with Internet...more images.. and this stupid way of dating.. how helpful has this been?

Is there never any reality shown to men? Do you know how long it takes to wash and style very long hair, as women are depicted in those images? Then a man gets antsy because it is taking too long to get ready to go, and yes, she will be using creams and makeup (though you think she is just "natural"), then having to select appropriate clothing and shoes for the occasion. Four hours later... "I'm ready... oh, where'd he go?" (They want a woman to look good, but they don't want to wait around, either). Just as one minor example.

"Gotta get a hot girl" .."gotta have a hot girl"... GOD, this is all anyone hears or sees anymore, everywhere. Do you know how miserable men have become, being with an empty, superficial, Barbie? But, no..as long as she makes you go "schwiing" to look at her, you think that will make your life livable. What about the guy who couldn't get the "hotter" (I have begun hating this term) girls to pay attention to him, so he went to school and shot a bunch of people and himself. Why? Because he was wrapped up wanting to fulfill a fantasy (granted, he was not well). One guy here, after I had mentioned that before said "It's never what it is cracked up to be" (and if you go for the wrong kind of woman, you will get exactly what you don't want - then complain). If you seek the unattainable, you'll never be happy.

Just because a female appears a certain way, do you think that ensures she will be responsive and satisfy you? What about how she is out of the bedroom? Can she communicate?.. oh, that doesn't matter, right? Can she cook?.. oh, you will just always eat out. (People become involved due to sex, then reality sets in). This kind of thing contributes to failed relationships and marriages. And there is SO much more to real involvement than anything superficial.. ask the ones who have been successful. (Also, it does not mean that everyone is even capable of having this, for a variety of reasons, so there is that, too).

Honestly, I don't see or hear women saying or doing the same thing.. "gotta get a hot guy", "Oh, only a hot guy for me"...lol.. we don't hear this or see this, not that women don't want to feel that attraction to another. Women just want a nice relationship with confident, sweet, good guy...and there are those lovely guys out there, that some women are so lucky to be with. And wonderful, fulfilling sex exists between everyday people.. because "sex really begins between the ears".. (just look around.. tons of people..how many of those "fantasy women" do you see?) Lots of other good-looking, valuable people with positive characteristics, though, besides habits and flaws, that everyone has (outside of those who are incapable of having relationships, due to real problems).

OOhhh.. sorry for the rant... I've just seen too much of this..and it is not just young guys having these expectations. I just cannot stand seeing how things have become and so much dissatisfaction, when there doesn't need to be.

[Amelie90]

Originally Posted by OzzyRules

It seems that most women would prefer a rich guy, even one with questionable sexuality.

I don't think so.

[RoseLikeAnyOther]

Yes. Although it has more to do with your approachability than how hot you are. If you have a face that screams "don't talk to me" then mostly the creepy guys will try to chat with you. Normal nice quality guys might not.

[oh-eve]

Originally Posted by OzzyRules

It seems that most women would prefer a rich guy, even one with questionable sexuality.

Whats questionable sexuality? He doesn't have a sexuality?