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I'm 28 and I have been talking to this 40 year old man online for a year he and I live in different states. We've talked a few times on the phone and we have also sent sexy pictures to each other. He said he just wanted to have sex with me and that's it. I told him that I didn't want to be in a relationship with him. That I only wanted to be friends he said that he thought I was nice woman but that he didn't think we were compatible. He said that we had talked on the phone several times and that he didn't enjoy talking to me. I told him I knew it was because I asked him personal questions and that he makes me feel nervous. That he intimidates me in some way he asked me why I told him because he seemed like the type who likes perfection and that he seems judgmental. He said that was a misconception and false assumption. I told him I wanted to see him when I am in town and that I liked talking to him because he's older and has more experience. He said age has nothing to do with having experience and that we would talk about that.
I do not want to be in a romantic relationship with him but I would like to at least be friends with him. I'm just hoping that maybe if we actually meet in person we may actually become friends.
I'm 28 and I have been talking to this 40 year old man online for a year he and I live in different states. We've talked a few times on the phone and we have also sent sexy pictures to each other. He said he just wanted to have sex with me and that's it. I told him that I didn't want to be in a relationship with him. That I only wanted to be friends he said that he thought I was nice woman but that he didn't think we were compatible. He said that we had talked on the phone several times and that he didn't enjoy talking to me. I told him I knew it was because I asked him personal questions and that he makes me feel nervous. That he intimidates me in some way he asked me why I told him because he seemed like the type who likes perfection and that he seems judgmental. He said that was a misconception and false assumption. I told him I wanted to see him when I am in town and that I liked talking to him because he's older and has more experience. He said age has nothing to do with having experience and that we would talk about that.
I do not want to be in a romantic relationship with him but I would like to at least be friends with him. I'm just hoping that maybe if we actually meet in person we may actually become friends.
Cut and run. If he doesn't enjoy talking to you now, he won't talk to you after he gets what he wants.
I realize that whenever I would talk to him on the phone I would ask him personal questions. He called me wanting to have a discussion with me but I didn't answer his calls. At the time I was upset with him he blocked my numbers. Saying that he didn't want to talk to me but when I texted him a few days ago he did talk to me. I told him I enjoyed talking to him because he's older and more experienced. He said that age has nothing to do with having experience.
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Originally Posted by WeHa
Cut and run. If he doesn't enjoy talking to you now, he won't talk to you after he gets what he wants.
You're 28 he's 40 ~ talking on the phone for a year?! Run Forest run!!! You have no idea what he's really about ~ at 28 you have the world at your finger tips...let it go!
There are certain qualities that I like about him he's determined and persistent. I just feel that we could actually be good friends if he actually gave me a chance.
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