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When I said persistent I mean as being a hard worker. I know sleeping with him won't make things better. Which is why I'm not going to even though I really want to. I do admit that I do flirt a lot on Facebook still that doesn't mean I am easy. I should have met him in person before mentioning sex to him. He probably thinks I'm easy for that reason as well.
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See. This proves meeting him is a bad idea. You haven't even met him and already you're getting angry enough at him to be ignoring calls or messages from him. Sleeping with him isn't going to help this situation. It never does.
And if you do in fact sleep with him, despite the lack of respect he's shown you, he'll never respect you. His treatment of you will get worse, because he knows he doesn't have to put in much effort for you to sleep with him. You shouldn't sleep with anyone who has outright said you use sex as communication and that you're boring, where he seems to think you have nothing to offer as a person.
Just know, some guys will put up with women for a long time, so long as he's getting good sex for his troubles. So don't think this guy's persistence or calling is because you wants you. He wants your body. A lessen a acquaintance of mine had to learn the hard way.
Ultimately, this guy is resolved to having a low opinion of you. So chances are, you can never win with someone like that.
Yes he finds me uninteresting we have never actually had a serious discussion. I should have answered his calls when he wanted to have a discussion with me but I didn't I was upset with him at the time. He even asked me to call him but I didn't do that either.
Why would you even want someone as a friend who thinks and has apparently told you he thinks you're uninteresting?
Guys who send D-pics to you don't do it with friendship in mind.
Because I know he is just basing it on the things I do and say on Facebook. I told him that I have always wondered what it would be like to be intimidate with an older man.
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Why would you even want someone as a friend who thinks and has apparently told you he thinks you're uninteresting?
Guys who send D-pics to you don't do it with friendship in mind.
Would it be ok if I met him in person and no I don't mean to sleep with him. I don't get why he asked me to call and have a discussion with him if he finds me uninteresting. That doesn't really make any sense to me. I guess maybe he was trying to give me the benefit of the doubt.
Would it be ok if I met him in person and no I don't mean to sleep with him. I don't get why he asked me to call and have a discussion with him if he finds me uninteresting. That doesn't really make any sense to me. I guess maybe he was trying to give me the benefit of the doubt.
You could meet him in person. But chances are, he's going to be expecting sex. And if you give it, he still won't care about your friendship and will think you're easy and have no standards since he's told you to your face he doesn't have much nonsexual interest in you.
And if you don't sleep with him, he'll just be ticked that was time wasted when he thought there'd be some sex.
So I don't see anything good coming from it. But if you really want to meet him, go for it. It's your life and only you can make your own choices.
I guess this is what I get for mentioning sex to a man I've never met in person. I am partly to blame I should have known better. I maybe could have actually had a friendship with him had I never mentioned sex to begin with. I don't know how I could even fix this I know it's all a mess. Bringing up sex to a man who I wanted to have a friendship with. Using sex as a way to get his attention instead of just being a classy lady. This is out of character for me because I really do have self respect and sex is not the only thing that I think about. I actually do have morals and I am intelligent it's just the way I handled things. Which made me look like an easy woman when I'm not.
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Originally Posted by VanillaChocolate
You could meet him in person. But chances are, he's going to be expecting sex. And if you give it, he still won't care about your friendship and will think you're easy and have no standards since he's told you to your face he doesn't have much nonsexual interest in you.
And if you don't sleep with him, he'll just be ticked that was time wasted when he thought there'd be some sex.
So I don't see anything good coming from it. But if you really want to meet him, go for it. It's your life and only you can make your own choices.
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