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He's a little afraid/not ready to come out of the closet. When you tried to get a straight answer out of him (no pun intended), he shied away from the closet door and back-pedaled.
Maybe this is leading somewhere, maybe not. You both sound young. Good luck.
He's a little afraid/not ready to come out of the closet. When you tried to get a straight answer out of him (no pun intended), he shied away from the closet door and back-pedaled.
Maybe this is leading somewhere, maybe not. You both sound young. Good luck.
We are young! Both 19. But I'm mature enough to never act this way towards someone.
I've thought about it considerably and I honestly do not think a truly straight individual would act the way he does with me.
And I agree, I think all I need is patience and very intelligently attempt to progress... but how? Say suggestive things from time to time? Do suggestive things from time to time? I guess that's what I should think about.
Also, something I would like to point out that I thought was interesting that he said yesterday. At the beginning of the hangout, I wasnt giving him attention so he was trying to avoid me, and then when I "broke the ice" and we kept talking to each other, he told me "I love how we always compliment each other but in a mean way." And then he said "I just complimented you so now you should make a comment about my hair or something to balance it out".... It's like he's trying his hardest to avoid putting two and two together???
You're going to find that a lot of people your age are fickle and head-casey, and that's even WITHOUT the baggage that comes with closeting.
If you want to continue to spend your time focusing on somebody who's clearly all over the place, that's up to you, and you certainly wouldn't be the only teenager/young adult to choose to do so...a penchant for dramatics appeals to quite a few in that developmental range. It'll get old, though, and usually results in a fair amount of mental anguish.
Wouldn't it just be better to find others to focus on who are a bit more comfortable in their skin?
I don't understand why you are struggling so much with whether he is gay or bi. At the end of the day, he is just a tease and he is just messing with your head.
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