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OP, you've gone way overboard with being so anxious over the shower issue, and now you're walking on eggshells and concerned about her dumping you.
If you feel that intimidated by her, you'd best rethink that relationship. Do you really want to be involved with a woman you're afraid of? Are you kissing up too much for fear of losing her?
How long have you been with your gf? It doesn't sound like you know her very well. Is this your first gf? To be honest, you sound like you have insecurity issues, or some other kind of issues that you should get some counseling for. If something like this freaks you out to this degree, you may not be ready for a relationship. You sound young and inexperienced, at the least. Unable to gauge people's reactions and emotions, and put events in perspective, indicating some kind of cognitive impairment, at the most.
Last edited by NewbiePoster; 06-08-2015 at 04:38 PM..
Stayed at my girlfriends last night which I've done before. When i showered the curtain wasn't in the tub and water got all over the floor and i didn't realize it. She told me and then cleaned it up though i offered to. I apologized twice but she just ignored it. It was a honest mistake and i don't know why she would be upset or maybe I am just overreacting haha.
She didn't seem to upset after a few minutes and I just hope she realizes it was a simple mistake
How could you get water all over the floor and not realize it? Didn't you have to walk to the door?
I have left it out after cleaning the tub but I realized it immediately.
im worried becaus ethats the first time she showed frustration with me
That's part of being in a relationship. If it happens too often it's needs to be addressed...but telling you to mop up the water you missed is not major league frustration.
im worried becaus ethats the first time she showed frustration with me
So you've never been in a relationship before, and had inevitable (and passing) moments of frustration arise?
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