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Old 06-08-2015, 04:18 PM
 
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OP, you've gone way overboard with being so anxious over the shower issue, and now you're walking on eggshells and concerned about her dumping you.

If you feel that intimidated by her, you'd best rethink that relationship. Do you really want to be involved with a woman you're afraid of? Are you kissing up too much for fear of losing her?
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Old 06-08-2015, 04:25 PM
 
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How long have you been with your gf? It doesn't sound like you know her very well. Is this your first gf? To be honest, you sound like you have insecurity issues, or some other kind of issues that you should get some counseling for. If something like this freaks you out to this degree, you may not be ready for a relationship. You sound young and inexperienced, at the least. Unable to gauge people's reactions and emotions, and put events in perspective, indicating some kind of cognitive impairment, at the most.

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Old 06-08-2015, 04:55 PM
 
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im worried becaus ethats the first time she showed frustration with me
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Old 06-08-2015, 05:00 PM
 
Location: Arizona
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Stayed at my girlfriends last night which I've done before. When i showered the curtain wasn't in the tub and water got all over the floor and i didn't realize it. She told me and then cleaned it up though i offered to. I apologized twice but she just ignored it. It was a honest mistake and i don't know why she would be upset or maybe I am just overreacting haha.

She didn't seem to upset after a few minutes and I just hope she realizes it was a simple mistake

How could you get water all over the floor and not realize it? Didn't you have to walk to the door?

I have left it out after cleaning the tub but I realized it immediately.
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Old 06-08-2015, 06:36 PM
 
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How could you get water all over the floor and not realize it? Didn't you have to walk to the door?

I have left it out after cleaning the tub but I realized it immediately.
I have done it before. The corner of the tub where nobody would think to even look unless they noticed they had done it.

Not all bathrooms are set up the same way.

In any case the water isn't the problem here.
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Old 06-08-2015, 06:49 PM
 
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im worried becaus ethats the first time she showed frustration with me
Well, frustration sometimes comes with relationships. It doesn't mean that it's the end of the world.
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Old 06-08-2015, 06:52 PM
 
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im worried becaus ethats the first time she showed frustration with me
That's part of being in a relationship. If it happens too often it's needs to be addressed...but telling you to mop up the water you missed is not major league frustration.
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Old 06-08-2015, 06:54 PM
 
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I have done it before. The corner of the tub where nobody would think to even look unless they noticed they had done it.

Not all bathrooms are set up the same way.

In any case the water isn't the problem here.
I agree...it's not the water.

In our one shower it's easy to leave the curt3untucked and miss a puddle until you would walk out...than back in.

You mop it up and move on.
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Old 06-08-2015, 07:05 PM
 
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I was messy once!

So why even post about it? You said she got over it. Big WHOOP. We all get ticked off here and there. It's called LIFE.
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Old 06-08-2015, 07:12 PM
 
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im worried becaus ethats the first time she showed frustration with me
So you've never been in a relationship before, and had inevitable (and passing) moments of frustration arise?
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